THE DR. J. R. HOPKINS HELPER Dedicated to his men and co-Workers DR. J. R. HOPKINS ATLANTA, GA. ThE GEil^HAL LIBRARY THE UN!V2"3.VY OF GE0^ ATi-:r_":: PRINTED BY THK FOOTE ft DAVIES CO. ATLANTA. OAa Entered according to Act of Congress, In the office of the Librarian of Congress, at Washington, D. C., In the year 1908, by DR. J. R. HOPKIXS, Atlanta, Georgia. Preface T O MY MEN AND Co-WORKERS: THE HELPER is the outcome of letters and lectures or talks to my men. I have reproduced the letters and lectures in THE HELPER and tried to help, encourage and cause action in each man, and produce some good thoughts and deeds in him. I have endeavored to write something worthy of the many good men I have and to whom I have dedicated it. I hope each may find in its pages some good lesson that indeed will be a helper. I know, away deep down in my heart, I want to help my men to make a success, and often have I studied day and night trying to think out a plan to help, to encourage and stimulate a man to action, to get him to see" the future as it should be with him, to get him to look often into the future one year, then five years ahead, and then let him say: "I will meet it and realize it, I will look and see it now." I hope THE HELPER will be worth reading more than once. I think if you read it often you will see and realize, in it, great good and profit to you. To any one who by accident or otherwise, 7 THE GENERAL LIBRARY THE uw*p,r; OF QEORG ii-ORG/A reads THE HELPER and thinks and figures, and who would like to catch some point that would help or encourage him, be he rich or poor, learned or unlearned, I hope that he may be pleased and benefited. I want to say here and now, to all men that may come across THE HELPER Book, bear in mind and do not forget it, in justice to my literary friends, I say, THE HELPER is not a literary book in any way, does not claim in the least possible way to be a liter ary book, and I beg you not to figure on THE HELPER in that direction. You would do me great injustice, and also do yourself injustice and harm. I ask you to judge THE HELPER through and through, from beginning to end, on its merits. 8 The Publishers Letter IN" presenting THE DB. J. R. HOPXINS HEUPER No. 1, we do so for the convenience of some salesmen and saleswomen who prefer to sell only one book. It has 336 pages and is beautifully illustrated. It is a forerunner of THE DR. J. R. HOPKINS HELPEB in three vol umes. This No. 1 HELPER is taken from the three volumes of 900 pages. Tou need the three volumes and can write to the publishing company for them. THE DR. J. R. HOPKINS HEUER No. 1 con sists of letters and lectures to his men, after 9 36712 years of study and work and studying men and business year after year. He found many a point in man and in business that he knows to be good, because he used them and proved them to himself. The J. R. Hopkins Publishing Co. sees the value of them for all classes, if they can come in contact with THE HELPER. The stimulant from THE HELPER will induce many to succeed in life: will show many the calling and busi ness suitable to them. It will enable the man who rents a house to see how he can own a home, and he who rents a farm, to see how he can own one. It will aid to lift man higher in business, and in his profession. It will cause him to think more, and to carry himself up in knowledge in his own estimation. When a man has a high estimation of himself, then indeed, he has won a good point in his own favor, and the man that has done that, has taken the first step on the ladder of success, and is in position to climb higher. It will help the reader to see and know if he is in the job or trade for which he is made and suited. It teaches man to own and to possess. It con demns wrong-doing, laziness, ignorance, etc. It encourages men and boys in living a pure 10 and untarnished life in the fear of God and thereby making a success of life. It is a lifter to all mankind. We rely on THE HELPERS merits only to meet all it claims. Read THE HELPER No. 1 through and we do not doubt your opinion. That it is truly and indeed a helper, and good for mankind. Write us for the agency. THE J. R. HOPKINS PUBLISHING Co., Atlanta, Ga. 11 Index. PAGE Introductory . . ................... 17 Leaving the Old Home (.Illustrated) .......... 26 Traveling Hellward (Illustrated) ........... 31 Was It Your Boy? (Illustrated) ............ 35 To the Man Without a Home .............. 40 A Fair Question (Illustrated) ............. 43 Your Motto ...................... 47 The Sale of Denmark the 2nd (Illustrated) ....... 48 How Are You Building? (Illustrated) ......... 58 The Black Cat (Illustrated) .............. 66 The Key ........................ 70 Mr. Manager ..................... 71 A Wish and a Prayer................. 74 Get In Tune (Illustrated) ............... 76 Everything That Wears Hair Is Not a Horse ...... 78 To Be a Success or To Be a Failure .......... 80 The Architect ..................... 82 Unions . . . ..................... 83 A $2,000.00 Hog (Illustrated) ............. 85 Repeating ....................... 87 You Dont Need Them (Illustrated) .......... 89 The Politician ..................... 90 To the Young Man Critic ............... 94 How Rev. Mr. Walker Missed Kis Calling (Illustrated) 96 Making a Dollar Grow ................ 103 Young Man: When You Marry ............ 106 Stick to Your Lodge and Unions (Illustrated) ..... 107 Mr. Father: Where Is Your Boy? ........... 108 Mr. Manufacturer, Do You Know ............ 109 Your Road ....................... 112 Do Yon Swear? .................... 118 Plain Man ....................... 119 The Drummeit (Illustrated) .............. 120 The Lion In You (Illustrated) ............ 128 To the Wage-Earner (Illustrated) .......... 133 The Dog Show (Illustrated) .............. 140 Superintendent and Sunday-School (Illustrated) . . . 143 House Rent Due (Illustrate!) ........... .148 Examination (Illustrated) ............... 151 Let Your Light Shine (Illustrated) .......... 156 Behind the Curtain .................. 162 Three Feet Make a Yard, Sixteen Ounces Make a Pound; What Does It Take to Make a Man? (Illustrated) . 164 Memory of the Past (Illustrated) ........... 166 Leaders of the Church (Illustrated) ......... 172 The Empty Cradle (Illustrated) ........... 177 Keep Out of Debt ................... 180 Mother: Hear Me .................. 181 I Feel As If I Am Wasting My Time On You ...... 182 12 PAQK Have You Shackles About You? (Illustrated) . . . ...184 Two Kinds of Fishing (Illustrated) . ... ... . . . . .188 Your Boy Has Advantages .................. 189 "Whose Shoes Do You Wear? . . . ....... ... . . . ...192 "Working Rich Land (Illustrated) ........... 194 Live a Life and Love a Life .............. 197 Looking Alike ..................... 201 Plying a Kite ..................... 204 The Assayer ...................... 207 The Mother Bird Said: "Go, Make Your Career" (Il lustrated) ..................... 210 How Far Down Did You Go Figuring? ......... 213 Add Up Your Boy ................... 215 Read the Lesson of the Sow and Her Pigs (Illustrated) . 218 What Is the First- Thing Birds Do When They Marry? . 219 Did You Buy a Book? ................. 222 The Teacher ...................... 225 Listen: The First Error Is .............. 229 Wanted: A Man to Fill a |10,000.00 Position ..... 231 Boy, The Have Dumb You Found Your Place? .......... Animals (Illustrated) ........... 232 235 Training a Young Man ................ 236 Studying THE HELPER (Illustrated) ........... 242 The Bell Is Tolling For You .............. 247 Who Once Is Tommie? Clerk Now (Illustrated) ............ Owner ............... 250 269 Have You Your Ticket Ready? (Illustrated) ..... 274 Do You Figure .................... 291 The Lost Saeep .................... 295 Pay Your Doctor ................... 301 From Poverty to Success (Illustrated) ........ 303 The Monkey Show (Illustrated) ........... 305 My Hunting Dog (Illustrated) ............ 309 The Value of a Book (Illustrated) .......... 315 Writing to Mother .................. 320 Are You Striped? (Illustrated) ............ 325 What Do The Clerks In Small Towns, Do At Night? (Illustrated) ................... 328 Drop Me a Letter ................... 334 I Am Before You, Judge Me .............. 385 13 "8. T *a ^^> ^ ( You are traveling the road to success and man making, in your county, in your state, in your town, in your city. Yes you are ; no mis take about this at your home, or you are travel ing the road of no success, no man making. Now you add up and make a man or you brand yourself, "No good," and get out of the com munity. I say, do one or the other and do it to-day. ^ C^ 63 Young man, are you still in your A B Cs, so far as knowing who you are and what you expect to make out of yourself, as to knowing some one thing well and following it? How old are you? 18, 25 or 30 years old and still in your A B Cs? At your rate how long be fore you can spell baker? Can you spell a home, a business, a profession, or a trade? Will you wake up? Will you think or not? Will you work and study? Will you read some each night? What excuse have you to make to yourself for not reading at night and thinking? Can you neglect yourself longer and face others, who are studying and prepar ing for success ? IS JS^i ^&^r^^-- -t ^ ^ f '^^ Tune yourself up and be in tune and har mony with self, and you can do something that you will enjoy. Some may say, had I read THE HELPER be fore this, I would have made a success. My friend, do not try to get out of the way of sue- cess again. Dont dodge. Brace up; go meet success; it is not far away. What is a safe foundation in business? It is knowing how, it is knowledge, it is putting your ideas into action and your figures to bring them true. Do you think it will help you in business, in your feeling, in life, to go home at night drunk? Do you think it will do the wife any good or the children good? Never be guilty of asking more of a friend than you would be wining to do for him. 66 MB. MANAGER: If I have said any word in THE HELPER that I have sent to you, to aid you to do well, to accomplish good, to enter and make a success in business, then I have not written you in vain. Some of you have read and kept my letters for fifteen or twenty years. I am glad they are still a help to you. I con sider it a high honor to know that you thought enough of them to keep and get some good out of them and to know that you now and then take them out and read them over again, after so many years have passed. It is a compliment of which I never thought myself worthy, nor did I ever expect any one to do so. I could hardly believe it. You often wrote me and told me so, but I could hardly realize it. May I still be able to write you and help you fight and win all along through life, and may I still be able to encourage you. Nothing pleases me more than to hear of your success, and your happiness. 56 L The wind shows which way it is traveling. Let your works show which way you are trav eling. When you read any book, read it, having in view the finding in the book something good and you are expecting to find it, and look and watch for it. That is the way to hunt a squir rel or rabbit. Watch and look and expect to receive and you will receive. MEN: The day will come soon in your life, when you will say, that you do not know why you did act so foolishly as to neglect yourself in the way you did. Probably you are not training your boys, so that they will not neglect them selves in a similar manner. Why can not you now so live and teach that they can see the way clear to avoid the path you traveled? Train them while young to know certain things are wrong, and lead to wrong-doing, to a wrong life, and to failure. " /y 57 MR. Briekmason, Mr. Carpenter, Mr. Builder of Homes for Others, have you one ? Why will you continue to build for the other fellow, and do without yourself? In all fairness and earnestness I ask why? What are your wages to-day, and what were they five, ten or fifteen years ago I You may say when you first started out, they were just one-half what they are now. If that is true, you did waste to your ability and you are still at it to your full capacity. Dont you think you had better get down to figuring and adding up your expenses and 58 meditating on your life ? You promised long ago to accumulate and to build you a home. You could have built it at night easily. Your neighbors and tradesmen in some line would have gladly helped some night. You could have had small talks, something to eat, etc., to pay them for their assistance. My friend, you could have had a home, but you failed to develop the thought, the wanting of a home, and the way to it, and you are without one for yourself and your family. Read this again later on in life, and see what the answer will be then. Suppose you see your wife and read this, and see if the way does not open up to you. It will open up, if you read this often enough, take my word for it, if you are a good man and you have a good wife. Do you like THE HELPER? Dont you wish you and THE HELPER had met .<. ars ago? Well, let us see and figure for ^ne moment. Do you propose to give up any idea, any Godgiven ambition and all of it that was in you years ago, just because you made an error? My friend, all make errors in life and there is time for you now to correct an error. Will you do it? You know THE HELPER is correct and is right, you know it is talking directly 59 to you and your family. Your wife and babies need a home just as much as others and it is just as valuable to them as to any one else. You know THE HELPEK is correct and you know it is putting this house and this home business mildly to you, yes, putting it easy, because you feel that it is true and abso lutely correct. You will do yourself and family great injustice by trying to prove your innocence or render any excuse whatsoever. I hope you will not mortify or lose your con science in either way, or sit down and cry and bemoan your error, or ease your conscience by making excuses and trying to justify your self. There is no excuse and dont for your sake and familys sake offer one. You will surely lie if you try, and dont you try to do it. THE HELPER has this to say to you and there are millions in your class that Gods sun has never shone on a better class of work men than the builders, is THE HELPERS judg ment. "When God built man He put his best part into his house the house the mans body, and the best part of man is his soul, and then his brain, and they are shut in by a home and are well cared for and well protected, and the structure is fine and good and beautiful. 60 Wont you build another home to take care of this entire structure, this outward man, in caring for the mans body? A home for his body will help care for his soul and his brain and his all. Dont you want a house, a home of your own ? Dont you ? Dont you think it but justice to your own self, with family or no family? Have a place that you can call truly your own home in fact, in law and by rights, where no man can say "move out, I will need the house you are in," nor the rent man raises the rent, and you pay or you and your family go, and you obey, ab solutely obey. You pay more rent or you pack up, sick or well, and you move out. Listen! Can you say you have fought a good fight? Will you? My friend, Mr. Builder, does THE HELPER talk sense? Does THE HELPER get close to you and are you close to THE HELPER, or do you refuse to get close to THE HELPER? I am only talking to you and talking just as THE HELPER sees life and feels life. THE HELPER will close this letter to you now and its wish to you is, that some day not far away, you may build your own home for you and for yours. In saying good-bye, we will say, "If you do commence 61 to prepare to build for yourself a home, will you drop THE HELPER a little letter, not as long as this one, but a short letter, telling him you have seen your error and you will have a home ? " I will look for the letter. I expect it, Ltell you. I will look for the letter. r.^- If this HELPER was not a helper I would not ask you to read it, I would not give you the opportunity. I do not like a bashful man ; but I do like for a man, if he knows he has some thing good, to say so, and say it plainly, so that it will be heard and understood. I tell you now I know THE HELPER helped my men. They said so and I know it by the success that it helped them to make. I know, if good for my men, it is good for you, or for any man. Yes, it is good for anybody, and all classes, and professions. Do you think the agent or merchant who sells it would lie to you ? No, they would not. No, you know they would not, because to do so would mean fail ure. I am dealing with my work and my pro fession, handling men, and pointing out my experience and knowledge, that I stored away year after year. My experience and knowledge did me good, and it will do you good in business. ^ /> 63 MB. MANAGER : I note with great pleasure, a great increase in the efforts of my men as a whole. Most all my managers, collectors and clerks are doing better work than ever. While some have not increased business much, the business is in a more healthy state and is in a growing condition. Some few collectors and clerks have not waked up to the idea that they are working to build up themselves, their knowledge and their brains. They think they are working only for wages, for a dollar only. They will, I hope, soon learn better and real ize that they need brain, need to be good busi ness men and that the way to make one, is to work and study and know the business well, love and take interest in the work, not to wait to be told, but go ahead and do it. I do call on collectors and clerks to be managers. When I call, be ready; now is the time to get ready. I send this to all my managers, hoping all will watch their growth. May their har vest be good in the next sixty days. Some men are like a rotten potato or a rot ten apple. Place one in a barrel and leave it there long enough and it will rot the whole barrel. Everything they touch or mingle with, they put a rotten speck or a spot on. They give out poison, hand out disease and are death to honesty, to truth, to manhood, to mak ing of a man. Watch with whom you go. Choose your associate and be sure he is sound in character. How about your enthusiasm? Is it good? Do you go at any and everything full of it? If not, why not? It takes it to pull through successfully. You say, if you had money you could make money. Who believes you when you say this? Not one man in fifty. When you spend a day idly and unprofitably, dont forget; you will never see it again. God gave you the day, and you failed to use it properly; you failed to get out of it that which was in it for you. He will not give you that day again. It is lost to you. LOOK! See that young man tying that tin can to that black cats tail. Dont you see that black cat running, even before the boy gets it tied on well? But watch and see things happen. It is not necessary for THE HELPER to tell you what will be doing, when that boy turns that black cat loose. It will mean to that black cat hustling, getting away and going. Yon der she goes. Listen! Hear! Oh! It means business to that black cat. Did you ever in all your life see a cat and the tin can change so fast and so rapidly from the yard to the loft and then the stables and the horse lot and up into the fodder loft? Well, it is fun to the boy and hustling and getting there 66 for the cat. Well, boys, that carries THE HELPER back to boy days, a good many years. THE HELPER thinks, if you will tie a tin can or fire crackers or some other thing that puts a hustle on to some young man, and touch them off, it might put a move on some young man, who will not study, will not look ahead and prepare for a business, for a profession, for a calling, for a trade, that it will put a move on some young man who will not move himself, who will not think and do. See him! He will not do his work well, will not learn well his place, will not study some little at night, will not read or try to see and meet lifes work, will not do what was intended for him to do. What is the matter with him ? Why will he not see and then move to suc cess, to his place in life ? May he see and act, may he want and want to-day, may he seek and find. Oh! young Juan, could you see your self and see how much was in you that you could accomplish, you would do, you would accomplish. THE HELPER is doing all it can to let you see yourself and your life, just ahead of you. If you will only look and act, you will succeed and all hell can not prevail against you. Success to you my young friend. 67 Tie another tin can to another cat and she will go and then you go and win also. 68 Listen to me! You would like to hold up old Father Time, who has rolled along, as you have grown older and wasted year after year. You failed to study, to read and think as you read; you failed to figure and ask who am I? What am I good for? What shall I be and when will I be it? Yes, you did fail to con sider, in the bygone days. No I Time will not stop or allow you to stop. No I You can not go over the same route again; you have lost probably two years, five years, ten years, and some, twenty years of your life, probably beyond a doubt, the best years of any years in your past life, and you may never pass as good years in the future, or you may{ have, before you, your best years "to pass through, yet to come. I hope so, if you will make the proper use of them. Be sure to pick out, of each one, all the good you can get by study, and work, and gather in the harvest. 69 The Key TOUXG MAST: Have I gotten close to you? Have I said anything that you like or that you can get any good out of ? Do you see one point that you can utilize, that will aid you to see yourself, that will help you know and feel that there is in you untold wealth that you have never seen in your make-up before? Have I gone deep down in you, have I touched the spot, the key hole and handed you the key to open up and take a peep in at yourself and look at the wonderful things that you have in yourself, in your brain that has been lying still, uncultivated and rich in resources as the land on the great black belt in Texas or Illi nois? Walk in and out and open up the avenues in you, and a treat will be the result. Truly, man, havent you delayed long enough ? Dont you see as I do ? If so, I present you the key. MR. MANAGER: THE bird and the rabbit has each its home. A dog that has no home is poor, thin, mangy and needs a home. A dog without a home some day will go astray. Do I help you think ? If so, I need not ask your pardon. You may think I am too hard or draw my words too closely. Oh, no! I am due you my best advice. I promised to help and aid you. Then do not say, I make com parisons. I only talk to you, and advise with you. I would not write, but I can not expect to see you often, and I want you to see and feel and know, you are the best thing God ever made. He said man was His best, and like unto Himself. You are His best creature, the very best thing He made. Then, I beg you to know it, I beg you to keep it good and make all out of yourself that you can and all that was intended for you to make. Do not neglect yourself, the best thing on earth. Take care of it, make it good as it is very valuable. Why not ? If you sow wheat, you reap wheat; if cot ton, you reap cotton; if goodness, goodness; if meanness, meanness. What you sow, you reap. 71 If you put two plug horses together, you reap a plug colt; yes, a plug colt, not a racer, not a fast trotter. Note also the difference in price and value. If you put two plug persons together in marriage, what will you reap? A plug boy. What responsibilities before you! Will you bring forth a plug boy, or one with brain, with muscle, with honesty and industry and man hood? Name him now. You can have him be as you wish. I beg you, if a young man, figure on this closely. Like produces like. You catch my meaning, my point, con sider it. And to you who are married and who have a boy. I want to warn you and call attention to this point. Your boy is watching you, pat terning after you, and day by day he is grow ing like you. He thinks you a great and good father, and he is following your footsteps. He will do things as you do them. If you are hon est, he will know it and follow in your ways. If you are dishonest, he will be like you. If a drunkard or a liar, he will follow you. Can you expect him to follow some other man whom he does not know, or did not spring 78 from ? No ! He will be just about as you are. Do you want Trim like you? Watch out ! Be careful ! Take stock of your self often and see that you do your duty to wards your boy, or you may land him in the wrong road in life and cause him to make a failure, because you planted and grew the wrong seed in your own household, and you reaped what you sowed. You may think I have gotten off the subject, how to make a success in life and business. No, I am not off the subject, nor out of the direct road to it. I will leave this point with your wife and with the boy, when he grows up to manhood. What you sow you will reap. Be careful how you cultivate. I wish you, as you go down the road of life, happiness and prosperity. JS s> ^ A Wish and a Prayer. YOUNG man, when your father and mother wished and prayed, when you were in your little cradle, that you. would make a good man and a success in life, they wished and prayed for the best thing and the biggest thing that could come to you in this life and the life to come. If you follow and meet the prayer and the wish, you surely will be safe, here in business, here in life and here after. Have you answered the wish and prayer? Have you fulfilled it, have you met their ex pectation? If not, why not? What do you propose to do? Will you answer? THE HELPER wants your answer even if you refuse. THE HELPER wants to read it and see and feel your answer. If you say you refuse, if you say "Xo! I am not fulfilling the wish or the prayer of mother and father, made in my youth and in bloom and innocence and made with full heart and with all their love and af fection for me. With their own blood run ning through me each day I live, I am still standing still, looking and acting like a fool. It is my own fault; it is my own wasted time and errors and I am paying the penalty of my 74 wasted nights more particularly. Yes, sir, I see my errors, I see my folly, I see my own trouble and the trouble and anxiety I have brought to my father and mother." Young man, you need not talk, you need not sigh, you need not make any excuse, THE HEIJPER says "Come and go with the same energy and the same hustle and enthusiasm you once had and you can and will meet and fill the demand on you; you can and will meet the wish of your father and mother, you can meet and fill the promise you made yourself long years ago to make a success and a man. Do it, start to-day and you can start to-day and promise yourself to do it and keep the promise and you will win, others did, so can you." /\^'i^^^-;^^r^**'&jt^s--~^*** _- HOW are you and THE HELPER getting along 1? Are you on good terms ? Are you in harmony with each other? Do you like each other? Do you believe each other? Do you tell the truth, the naked truth, to each other? Will you trust each other? Are you friends to each other? What will your answer be, yes or no? Listen! Can you fiddle together? Can you play the same tune together? Have you tuned up, are all the strings in harmony? Let us fiddle together. Why not ^S, ^^^^ss^SyU 155 LIMB up yourself. You need no help but your own self. Will you do it? Why not? Why delay and wait and fool away yourself, your own pre cious time ? It is a fool who hesitates. Add up and see if it is you. Take action to-day; not just read this but consider the letter. It means much to you. Or will you say it means the other fellow? Oh, for a closer walk with you, a calm and serene mixing up together with you and THE J. R. HOPKESTS HELPER, a close figur- 156 ing with each other, a careful meditation with each other and with self. You may be satisfied with yourself, with what you have done in life; if so, you are the only such man I ever saw or read of. Say, my man, you know I try to teach you and let you see and feel how much you can do, and how little most men do. Look about you. See the man with great vim, great energy, great enthusiasm, great will-power. See the man who knows it is up to him to do or not to do, and see how he does. He figured that he must do or die, and he preferred to do. Dont be a drone. Dont be a hangei^-on. Dont just exist. Dont be in the way. Use your influ ence, use your manhood, and your own Godgiven talents. Use them for success and for good. Why not ? You see others doing so. Say, my co-worker, I must let you see the light that is just ahead of you, the light that to you is the same light that the great moon gives out to the world in the darkness of the night. It is the light in your soul that THE HELPER refers to. It brightens and shines daily and nightly in you, and holds out light and encour agement to you. THE HELPER sees it in you often, and often you fail to see it and oftener 157 you let it go out, because you do not kindle it afresh each day. You fail to let it burn and burn and do not light it up and keep it lighted. Light it up in you at this moment, and look and see yourself, your job, your profession, your business. Turn the light on to its fullest capacity, and look and enjoy, and live in the moonlight at night and the sunlight in the day. Did you know how great a light you are, if you would let your light shine ? THE HELPER often sees your light, out when it should be burning, when you should be using it for your self, and handing out your own light for clerk or collector or neighbor, your light and influ ence for his benefit, and THE HELPER takes a deep sigh and long breath, and cries out in his own soul What is the cause? What is the reason you failed to get a move on yourself, in keeping with your ability? Why idle away or neglect yourself any longer ? My dear man, can I get close to you ? Do I? Can I turn on the light? Let me, I beg you, kindle it anew in your great Godgiven soul and let it not any longer be hid under a bushel, under a cloud, under your own careless and indifferent self. But oh! come out and light yourself up, so that your 158 light may shine upon your clerk, your collec tor, and upon every customer in full force and full current, and make each customer feel the great power, the great light and influence you have in you. You have not let it burn, but you have al lowed it to lie dormant in you. Say! you must climb up. You can and should do so. Will you not, from this day go to doing, with all the great moving power within you ? I have missed your light. I tried often to let you see it and to help kindle it in you, and then let it keep burning and giving out your light, but you would not. You just would not, and a longing sigh came often ovei me, and I sat .up and figured on you and often said to myself in the deep, cold hours at night, what is the matter with him? Why doesnt he see, and feel what he could do ? Why does he fail to keep up his best thoughts after they get in him and take possession of him? But THE HELPER, although hundreds of miles away, can see the light, after it has been kindled in you, going out, dying out and for no cause. And then THE HELPER says, "Why will man act thus ? Why will he so neglect so great an op portunity? Why will he stand and see the 159 great successful crowd pass by him with great torch lights and great enthusiasm, and great demonstration?" Wont you think, wont you lie down to-night with the great burden on your soul, and there, in your lonely bed, add up yourself and turn on your light of joy, your light of enthusiasm and of grit, pluck, enterprise, of love for self and for your Godgiven light? Sit up for self some; you would for a sick cow or horse. You are sick; and you have often made your father and mother sick, be cause you would not act, because you were in different to your own self and your own inter est. "Wake up; get hold of self. Who will turn on the light if you do not ? No one. No, not any living soul. Please do not turn out your own light, when it wants to burn and give out light, when your father and mother love to look at it and are longing to see it burn brighter all the day long. Dont turn it out. If you turn it out, the peo ple will say: "Look at that man! There stands a fool; he will not act, and turn on the light; he will not think; he will not use hin>> self to his advantage. Look at him." Yonder 160 he is and has been about in the samfe fix for years. Will you excuse so long a letter to you this time? I will look for your light to shine at once. May it never go out again. With kindness, I am ever yours for service. Call on me at any time. I am with you to the end. 161 Behind the Curtain SOME managers do not want the collectors to learn. They think that if the collec tor, clerk or help catches on to business, that he will catch on to them, as they have a few things behind the scenes which they pre fer to hide. Recollect, when a sorry man does my busi ness wrong in any way, he hurts you a great deal more than he does me. I can stand it, but you need no such drawbacks in the busi ness, and each man should cry down mean men and should see to it that their meanness should follow them and sting them all through life, as they, by their wrong-doing, sting you, and your family. Now and then a man writes me and tells me about the manager and his little tricks, etc., and says that he should have told me months ago, but did not want to get up a little feeling, that he liked the manager, and did not want to tell on him, but now he tells me. How weak this is! This kind of man ought to get a stick ing plaster and put on his backbone. He ought to go to his home and tell his wife, how weakly he has acted, that he had gone on and on, al lowing a manager to do wrong, and by his 162 wrong-doing damaging the business and keep ing him down. Any man who does this way, by his own weakness, robs his own wife and chil dren; or, if a single man, he is robbing him self and his proprietor, in any line of business, and keeping himself down by being a little kit ten. Be a man and do your duty towards your self. Wake up, men, and look at yourselves, your work and your associates, and see that no one holds you down. See that I have a fair show to train and teach you business. 163 DID you ever compare yourself with any thing? Did you ever measure your self with a yardstick ? Did you ever weigh yourself in comparison with a pound of shot, a pound of sugar or meat? Takes 16 ounces to make a pound. Did you ever think and ask yourself if you honestly meas ured a yard three feet, full length? Did you ever think or ask yourself whether you would sell for full weight and length, or meet the requirements of a man? Do you know what it takes to make a pound or a yard of man? Do you know what it takes to make a man full weight and full length? Will you fill the hill ? If not, why not ? The other fellow will measure and will weigh you. 164 You are being weighed and measured daily byj your friends. How do they pronounce you? "Will you think and figure on your own self? 165 YOUXG man, how is your memory? Is it good? If so, you are blessed and if not, I am sorry. Then it is worthy of your best efforts to cultivate it. You can do so by studying and working it to a bet ter memory and when you make it such, use it to the best advantage. AH do not; but you should do so. Your memory takes you back and through the past; takes you over the paths and the fields of the old homestead; takes you back to old home and the old well, where you 166 once quenched your thirst; takes you back to mother and father; yes, back to the sweethearts of your boyhood days. Yes, preserve your memory. It is worth its weight in gold. It is largely life, its pleasures and its sorrows. Cultivate it and keep it by cultivating it and use it; that is what memory is for. Conse crate it and develop it. Tour memory can and does in trouble, com fort and console your troubled soul and carry you through many dark trials and save you heart-aches and help you weather and get through heavy storms of financial trouble or of professional troubles or of family troubles. You will need memory, when the flash-light of trouble comes. Our memory of to-day and of yesterday may almost sink us in despair; but when we let it carry us away back farther into the past, then a ray of hope can come in and open up to us beauties of the past that can and will tide us over the dark present. Many a young man far from home, away from father and mother and in a distant city, often finds himself with the blues and in down cast mood, and the present and future look dark to him, when all at once the past comes up with the memory of the old home and father 167 and mother and sisters and brothers, and mem ory says: "See, back yonder! Hear the old bellcow corning home. Dont you hear her bell ringing ? Ding dong! Ding dong! Ding dong! Hear her bell ringing as she comes home, her small yearling following her, coming back home at night. Listen at its bell, tring-a-lingtring-ling-a-ting! See the milkmaid or milk man." Then his memory carries him to the old horse and cattle lot and he sees again home and its surroundings, more vivid and beauti ful than ever and he sees himself feeding the horses, hogs and cattle and the bright fires in the old farm home, and the family group, all chatting and talking and reading. All at once his courage comes again to the young man and it says: "Arise and meet the present. It is all O. K. It is good. Only see it as once long ago, and you will come and win and realize and throw off the blues, the downcast feeling and take hold of the present and look to the fu ture." Then he with the glorious memory of the past, renews his hopes; his old-time joy conies back, sweet in memory and it says: "All is well and nothing lost. Climb on, take cour age ; the bright day is just ahead of you. Suc cess came to others. It can and will come to 168 you;" and the memory of father and mother, who expected him to make success, to win the fight, comes anew to him and he sings aloud and says: "I will." And he leaps with the memory of the past into the present and be yond into the future and on he goes with determination. And he did win and was crowned successful early after that trial, when he almost sank in the maelstrom of lifes trials. But memory, blessed memory of the past, saved him, and the fight was won. Memory of the past said: "Opportunity is ahead. Go on! Success is just ahead. Go on." And with a leap he pulled himself together and said: "I will" And he did. Young man, have you the blues? Are you disheartened? Does lifes road look hard to you? If so, look back at the past and take courage. Look back at the lives of the best men of the past and of the present. Tour lot is no worse, no harder. Cant you see it as it is to-day? Cant you feel and know it is1 true and not only true of you, if in hard luck if you please to call it hard luck. But I do not believe in luck. But we will call it anything to pass out of the present feeling and land into a better spirit and a better feeling; if you 169 are blue, if you are down in the mouth, down in spirit; yes, admit anything for this moment, if it will land you into seeing and feeling that you, a man, the great and crowning piece of Gods work and Gods creation any admis sion that does not hurt, just so you can get be yond the everlasting blues and downcast and awful feeling, that life is wearisome and lifes road too hard for you. No, my young man, lifes road is all O. K., and it is good and satis factory and you will find it so. Only look and believe it so, and you will realize it. Cant you take my word? Cant you pull yourself to gether and say you will come on and go on with me through life and by the way of THE HELPER? That is as close as I can get to you. Oh, if I could see and be with you only in per son ! I would Tnn in ten minutes all the blues in you, all the "ifs" and "ands" in you, and I would, if I could and I believe I could frill out bad luck, if you please, if you believe in good and bad luck. But dont believe in good luck and bad luck. Believe, I beg you, in man, in pluck, in grit, in enthusiasm, in success, in love, in happiness, in laughter, in making of a successful man, regardless of all blues and all bad feelings. 170 To hell with everything that tears down a man! And up with everything that says: "Go on to success!" When you feel as you ought to feel and see as you ought to see, then let the cry come from you with all manhood and with love for life, love for father and mother. "Away with the blues! Away with the bad feelings! With the bad luck." To heU, I say, with all hindrance. Your grit and pluck and manhood arise and meet to-day and to-mor row with mothers kiss of old and her bless ing for your success; and you will meet it and make it safely and soundly and all will be joy and success and a crowning of a life that was made for you and intended for you. I bid you good-bye and may we meet again farther along in our life by the way and through THE HELPER, and you be my friend and I will be your friend. Y OU recollect, at your home back in the country on the old farm, when the preacher came and spent a night or part of a day, how gladly your father and mother were to see him, how gladly his horse was put up and fed, how you listened to what he talked about, how kind and good he was, and how kindly he spoke of everybody, and how, before he left your home, the Bible was brought in and he read a chapter and had prayer, and prayed for the family and for you. Dont you recollect? That preacher may be dead now, but there are others following in his footsteps. Think what he did for human ity, for you. "Wont you do something in re- 172 turn for Trim or for those who are following the same road that he followed, preaching and praying for you and yours? Let me suggest this little nice and proper thing to do: You chip in a little more on the salary of your preacher, and still another good thing to do and a very kind act to do is, for you to make a motion soon, at your church, to raise the pastors salary. The laborer is worthy of his keep, and the better he is kept, the better the preacher. It is a shame, to let the preachers want and worry over the little salary they receive. Pay up promptly, and pay more, for very few preach ers get pay for what they do. He is helping you to live and do right, and helping you to prepare for this world and the next, and one good turn demands another. Help your preacher. Dont receive all the time and be too stingy to give out some in re turn. I dislike a stingy man, dont you? You say, you are not a member of the church and do not go. That is not an excuse. You owe more, doubly so. Suppose everybody did as you do, did not go to church, did not care to. Well, all I have to say is we would all be in a 173 bad fix, and I for one, would move out and go to where there were churches. You, I feel sure, would move away first. Just a word or so, Mr. Deacon, Mr. Steward, Mr. Elder, Mr. Leader: Your place is a high one and you are in charge and a leader. You owe a great deal to your members and your church for placing you up so high. Your duty is important; you are set up as a light; you are pointed out as a sample. Make yourself better and better, make your character good and pure, and fill your place honestly, faithfully; do your best as you see it; if you do not, I am afraid you rob the church and yourself. To all leaders of the societies and missions, etc., in the church, your work is as important as any other; it is a true member of the body of the church; look after it; fill your place well; know how to fill it well; learn how if you do not know; study it; you can not be excused for ignorance, because you can find out, you can fill the place. Do it or quit; do it or resign, and, when you resign, tell the mem bers you are too lazy to fill the place, that you will not fit the place, that you do not know what you are good for, and that you are afraid you will find out, if you continue to serve on. 174 Mr. Elder, or Steward, or Deacon, or to any officer of the church, you are honored to hold your place; not the church, but you, and if you are one of the know-all kind, and want every thing your way, you had better resign at once. The church does not need you, it can do better without you; or if you are a tattler, please get out. Every one knows you talk and talk so much that you lie, and do not know it. Only two things that can be done, quit tattling or move out. Mr. Layman, the man in the pew. Your re sponsibility, I dare say you do not know how great it is, you have not considered, you likely think the preacher and officers of the church are the only ones to look after the church and its success. You are badly mistaken. You are a very important member, you are recog nized as such by the officers. They know it, they feel your help, they feel the need of you in your seat at each service, they miss you when you are not in. your pew. Do not fool yourself on this point. Man, recollect that one of these higher places in church you will have to fill later on. If you do not, who will ? Yes, you, and you only, are the proper one to fill it. Prepare to fill it well. irs You will be called upon if you are any good, if your friends see in you the man, see in you the "will to do your part. Never falling short, never shirking-a duty. Yes, they are looking for you, now; they need you, now; they are waiting on you; hurry up; make good with yourself. Your friends will use you to their good and to your good. 176 YOUNG MAN : Look at the empty cradle. You once lay in that little cradle. You were placed there often by your mother long ago. She saw you grow and grow, until you were put into the little bed, your lit tle bed, and perhaps with a larger brother. Yes, she saw you grow to young manhood, watching after you day after day. Young man, are you watching after your father and your mother now? If not finan cially, are you seeing that they are having an 177 easy and comfortable life? Have you done your part, your duty towards them? Young man, look again. That cradle may be the cradle of your little one a few years back, but to-day it is empty. The little one may have gone to the little bed and then on its way to making of a boy and a young man. If so, your responsibilities are great, you are helping to make a man or a woman. Have you done everything in your power as you see it? Have you helped daily? The little one is growing daily. The Presidents of this country once lay in a cradle and little bed. Ministers, merchants, teachers, tradesmen and all classes, once lay in the cradle and then a little bed. They heard the songs of their mother, that sang them to sleep. Do you go back with me to that day, to the little bed? If so, we are in the past, and some of us are in the past that is dear and sweet to us. Some of our mothers have gone far away. Your mother may yet be with you. THE HELPER hopes so, and you should be very thankful, if she is. May you see life and live 178 it the best possible way for your good, and for the good of those who look to you. THE HELPER says good-bye until we meet again. 179 Be careful not to ask too many favors. You may be embarrassed, when they ask favors in return of vou. Keep Out of Debt If a man keeps too deep in debt, and can not pay promptly, it worries him so that he can not do good business and can not look after it correctly. His mind is on how to get up the money to pay, and he puts in his time thinking and worrying how to get the money to pay. If he is a clerk, he is not able to handle his cus tomer so as to sell to him, and wait on him with ease and satisfaction to the customer or the merchant, that is paying him for his time, and brain, expecting good results. Debt ruins some people, and keeps their bodies and brain to the grind-rock. Do not buy beyond your ability to pay. 180 Mother! Hear Me! Look after your own. Who will, if you do not? Not one. Give him your kiss, and a handstroke across his brow. He knows his mothers touch. Put him in his little bed, and watch him go to sleep. He sprung from you and is largely like you. May you forever be in his ups and downs, stand by him, and for him, and welcome him home often, and tell him when writing to him, that the same old home is there, still for him, and to come to it, and that he is welcome at any hour, day of night, and that you think of him often, and will expect him home as soon as he can con veniently come, and ask him to write to you often, and you write often to him. Never release your grip on him. You will be rewarded in the end, not only here, but here after, and, wherever the wandering boy is, may he never forget his mother, and may he so live that he will not bring any gray hairs or heartaches to her. Young man, write often to your mother. 181 The ways of the laggard are not the way to success nor is he pleasing to the business or professional man. Life is just about what we make it. How is vours? Do you like to see a clean yard in the front, if so clean up. I feel as if I am wasting my time on you. You are satisfied with yourself, with your ways, and although you have not accomplished anything that counts, yet you are willing to not make an effort to climb up the ladder to better yourself. I am writing to my men, who want to do better, want to climb up, want to make a success, and are willing to take advice, to work, study and strive to accomplish success. Now, I am up against this man. He says he is not interested, that he tried to make a suc cess in different lines of work and business, but did not, and he claims it is all luck in life, and that he has no luck. It is all bosh, all stuff, all a mistake to talk pluck, and grit, etc., to nun. 182 Suppose, ray friend, you are walking along side of a river or creek and you fall in, and you had never learned to swim? Would you call that bad luck, or would you say you were a fool for walking so close to the bank and taking the chances, when you knew, if you fell in, you could not get out, unless you called for help, and unless help came to you? Why not call on good luck? If bad luck put you in, good luck ought to take you out. Dont count on luck. Be a man and count on yourself and you will succeed. Life is short with you. Wake up. You have slept or wasted too much of your time. What you do, do quickly. You will be called on to render your check to headquarters soon. May you have a good report to make for your self. t/ s> ^, 183 M R CLERK, MR. WAGE-EAR>TER : Listen to me, hear me. What are you chained to, that makes your life a failure? You have deliberately put shackles around you, so that you can not do as you wish. They hold you down; they take all good intentions away from you, they are sapping your life from you, they are drawing the chains tighter and tighter about you. When you say you will free yourself you do not. Man, something has hold of you; you are 184 no longer what you once were, you are not yourself, you do not control yourself. What is it, man? Break loose and free yourself. Is it whiskey that took your manhood, that has you under control, and is carrying you to utter ruin? Wake up to the awful doom to which it is carrying you. Wont you make the effort of your life, now, before it locks you closer and harder ? Will you not think and by all your memory of better days, rise up in all your manhood, all your will-power and force yourself from the devil and ruin, away from the temptation? Go with a friend to the woods, anywhere, but go somewhere. Give all you have to get loose and save yourself from ruin and death. If you can not do bet ter, do as some others do, go to the institute for the cure of the whiskey habit. Is it a bad woman that has control of you, that takes all you make, that drags you down, that leads you farther and farther away from manhood and a good life, away from the teach ings of your father and mother, from the teach ings of your school-teacher and advice and teachings of your pastor at the old church that you once attended, or perhaps attend now, once in a while? You will soon ignore all these if 185 you continue to let this woman pull you down still lower. No doubt you are so far gone now, with her control over you, that you are unable to relieve yourself from this awful condition. If you slip away into some other State without her knowledge, and if she finds out where you are, she will follow you, and take a deadly grip around your neck. In the condition you are in, where will you find a place that is nearer hell? Flee from her as you would a wild tigress. Most men, if controlled by bad women, will be led to whiskey; for the two go hand-in-hand. What man can go up against the two evils? Later on they will lead you to stealing, lying, yes, to death, and the grave, a fearful end! You will soon lose your business or your job, if you do not change and get out of this bondage of hell on earth. Wont you release yourself from whatever it is that is holding you back from success, and a good life? May your will-power, your manhood, your grit, pluck, and energy return to you in power and strength sufficient to whip the evil that has hold of you. Conquer your self; whip the fight and do it at once. De lay means risk that you can not take. Make 186 the effort now. It is for success or eternal failure. It is for life. It will require daily fighting. The war is on the fight has com menced. I wish you a glorious victory. 187 WELL, men, this handling of a dollar and a man, means business. It keeps the man busy, watching the dollar and taking care of it and watching him self and earing for self and landing both the man and the dollar safely. It looks like fish ing. Often the fish is on the hook and then a pull and a jerk and no fish. But keep at it and, if you love fishing and if you fish in a stream where there are plenty of fish, you will soon catch them, and the sport is fine. ^0/2^-^Z/fa^^<5i*=fc=?U 188 Your Boy Has Advantages ME. FATHEE : Do you teach your boy, that he is a boy with all the elements in him that it takes to make a man and a successful man? If not, do so. Your boy has all the God-given advantages that any other mans boy possesses. God is not a respecter of boys. Nowhere does he say that He favors one class more than an other. Nowhere does He say, He will show any partiality. Nowhere does He say, He will let His sun shine to-day on one man or boy and not on another man or boy. Nowhere does He say in the Bible, that He will rain on the rich and educated and ignore the poor and the ig norant. No, no! You know and see and feel, that this is true. He will and does take care of you as He does the other man or boy. You have all the same chance to make a man. What more do you need? You can take care of yourself and you can climb up and succeed and own and possess. Will you do so ? If you do not, lay the blame at your own feet, at your own heart and soul. Will you consider and think for yourself and act for yourself and make no excuse whatsoever ? Make a man, or stand by and refuse and par the awful penalty for not 189 doing it. You know your duty and you do it not. ^^5^ Let THE HELPER suggest this point to some young men, yes, and old men; to call in very soon at your home in the evening or night, your neighbors, for a reading in THE HELPER on different subjects that any and all the guests or callers might call for, and read and discuss the subjects. You will entertain your self and your company. Many do this and en joy and reap great good and profit from so doing. The women can derive even more pleasure than the men in this way. Call in your friends and try it. Yours for profit and pleasure and knowl edge. ? Do you know with whom your children as sociate ? Does your wife know ? If not, you had better look into this at once. It is your business to know. Are you foolish enough to let them select their own company while young? You would keep them from a razor or loaded pistol. There are some folks more dangerous than a pistol. I will call attention to this fact, and want you to consider it well: Most men change from a job or a position so fast and so often that they utterly fail to learn any one thing well. Hence they fail ever to become valuable at any, one thing, and go down the road of business a sorry tool, not good for anything and never amounting to more than just common, ordi nary men, so far below par that when they die most of the family and neighbors are glad. 191 Whose Shoes Do You Wear? ME. CLERK, MR. WAGE EARNER: Have you put yourself, your foot into the shoes, into the place of the owner, in whatever business you are doing, and do you take the same interest the owner does and love it as the owner does? You say no, only so far as 3rour wages cut a figure, only for the wages you get. Tour answer is for yourself, but it covers the answer for 95 per cent, of men working for wages, working for others. Listen, my man, my friend. So long as you figure and act this way, so long will you be poor and fail in life. Tou can not see this as the owner does probably; but so long as you do as you do, and keep out of the business you are in, you will not know it, and you can not know it, unless you put yourself into the shoes or into the place of the owner. Do this, or you will keep yourself down and keep yourself from knowing the business, in any line or work or any kind of work. Listen! If you wish to fail, keep out of the other fellows shoes, the other mans shoes who owns the business. Any business man will tell you so! It is impossible to know and to real ize the business and its working, unless you go 192 in fully and fairly and with all your might and soul. No other way to reach to the bottom and then to the top. May you, if working for another, go in and work in and through and through with the proprietor or owner or mana- * ger. If he is a good and honest manager, get in his shoes, his place, till you know and real ize the position that leads to success. Like Produces Like If you put two white chickens together, what do you get ? An egg. What next, a white chicken from the egg. Like produces like. You will produce something like yourself. You may be ashamed to own it, but all the same like produces like. Will you think in time or be a fool and act one ? 193 YOUXG man, you who were raised on the farm and may now be living on the farm, your father, wewill say for il lustration, owns one hundred acres of land, fifty of which are rocky land and hilly and poor land and hard to make produce anything worth while. The other fifty acres are bottom land, or rich land, or land that may be made rich by fertilizing and car ing for it. Did your father ever work the hilly and rocky and poor land and let the rich and better land lie loose and unworked, lie idle any one year? "!STo, no!" you answer. 194 and you would say, "only a fool would act in that manner." N"o! you say you did not know of a single neighbor doing so. Listen at the next point. Did you ever see or know a young man who had rich brain and refuse to cultivate it, refuse to use it to its best quality, to its full capacity, but let it go to waste, using only the sorry elements in him, using the poor qualities in him that produce only small crops, crops that brought in but little return, worked hand-work only and left out the rich part, the rich element, the brain, would not take care of it or cultivate it ? Had he used good judgment and worked it only at spare moments and at nights and off days, cold or rainy days, the return from that brain crop would have beat all of the other crops he made. Do you see any sense in what I tell you? Are you willing to see and use better efforts and give more time and thought to your rich possession, your brain ? Cultivate it, fertilize it with good books, good newspapers and magazines; feed it regularly and you will har vest a fine crop yearly. Wont you do it? Try it, if you are not doing your full duty with your brain. Do you like this HELPER ? If so, 195 read it through again, i promise you, you will like it better still. Try it and say so, if you do like it. Yours for a good crop. r^^^^^^i^/c^^ You promised, young man, to stick by THE HELPER, till you got to the end. You are sleepy now. You read that it took grit and pluck and that a man must keep wide-awake to make a success to reach his points, to win in the fight against poverty and ignorance and now look at you. See yourself, feel of yourself, look how you act and do. You do not care, you are really too lazy to want ice-cream or a water melon. Did you ever read that laziness and dont care were precious and a jewel and worth having? If not, why do you hold to them so well and so closely? Why do you hug these two, laziness and dont care to you so dearly and at so heavy a cost? Let your answer be your own answer. THE HELPER renews its re quest. Wont you stick, till you get to the end. 196 Live a Life and Love a Life. LIVE a life and you will love a life, you will love your life. If you do not love your life, you have not lived a life that is in harmony with you. You may have tried to live and act some one elses life and you failed at the imitation and you are better off by the failure. It was a natural failure. Be yourself and act yourself and not an imitation, no humbug, no make shift. You had better study and read and read again, more and more and you will see yourself as you should see yourself. The great trouble with most people who fail to live a life is ignor ance and meanness and laziness. If you have any faults, you can, by study and reading, eliminate them, and when you do so, you will see through a better glass; you will see yourself better and, when you see yourself, you can and will see other people better. You are like many men, seeing and not see ing. They think they see poor fools! be cause they are too lazy to study and read and know. You and your neighbor may see each other either as thoughtless or as sensible men; as he is, or as you are. You can add up what you really think of your neighbor and then 197 wonder what he really thinks about you and your folks. It will not hurt you to consider and figure on this line. It will hurt neither you nor Trim and may be of help to you both. You know by this time, I love to figure; and you know if you do, and you know if you have done so often and day after day. Do you love your neighbor as yourself? You need not answer at this point. I can truly say I love my neighbor, but not as my self. But say, friend! you can love your neighbor, and others can be the judge whether or not you do so, in an honest and fair way. You will love your neighbor, if you love your self. I go that far and you, if you can, and I hope you can, go that far, when you say that you love your neighbor as yourself. Live true to self and to neighbor. But the trouble will be to live true to yourself, as that is the hardest. If you live true to yourself, I hardly can see any way not to be true to your neighbor. Come along and go with me all along through THE HELPER and study with me about man and things that affect man. Dont forget that you are a man and dont forget to be charitable with me. But give me room to make an erroi and many errors all along in 198 each letter. I am only one like you, one of the men who live and err all along down lifes road and I beg you to be fair and generous with me. I am only giving you my views, my experi ences in life and with man and with this busy and hustling age. I am giving you my ex perience with man and with this present age. I do not deal with the past, but with the pres ent and with this age, with these times and not with our forefathers time, or our fathers age. Yes, to-day, as I find it and see it, may not suit the next generation. I am not figuring on him or that age. I find enough for to-day to write on. I find more than I can digest; so to be candid, you and I can let the next age take care of its day as we do of ours. All you and I can hope to do, is to care for our own age. But should we talk and figure and do with our human nature so as to figure in a way and manner that teaches the human nature of some future age, then the men of that age will be the judges and act on our human nature of to-day. They can and will be the judge if they meet us or our life in the future. But believing that in all ages there are men who can and will live lives that will help 199 their age and that the young can and will listen and pattern after and follow the proper life in their own time, in their own age, let us help every man and woman in the path of right living and of man-making and success-crown ing, for their own age and time. May you and I go on down lifes road as men and not as imitators, not a humbug, but as God made men with honest hearts and hon est deeds and worthy of the name, "Man!" Yours for success and life living. 200 Looking Alike T my managers, in particular. We have gotten close together often, we have worried and fretted and worked, and we have won many points, and made many a successful ending, and we have lost some points, some that we thought we should have gained, because we have figured that we would gain. Yet we do not complain, we do not grumble. It can not be expected that we gain all the time and not lose sometimes. Nor would we have it otherwise. It would not do, it would ruin us, it would carry us too far down the road, altogether too far without brakes on. I now often recall going down the hill with a team and wagon and having failed to lock the wheels, great was the speed, and great was the smash-up, as we traveled down the hill. The lock or holding-back straps gave way, and we landed; but had to take a long time to get over it, and fix and pull out safely again. Tears of toil together, make us kin in thoughts, in ways and in deeds. It is said, that some men keep horses so long, that you can see the favor of the man in looking at the horse. I feel sure, some people think they see 201 the favor of man and horse. Well, my good man, it will be an honor to us to have people say that we have been so long together that we act and look alike, if we act right and do right and make a success, and live, day by day, as men should live; then we will be safe and our efforts safe, our life safe. I will not mail this letter to you. I will place it in THE HELPER and you will see it first in THE HELPER. This is a letter that you can not put with the other letters from me that you have kept and laid aside. You can keep it, in THE HELPER., and you can read it, and think of your younger days, when you first came to me for a position. May you con tinue to prosper. May you do well, live well and be contented all the days that you do live. r s> ^^ ^ .X You say your father did not educate you and that he can not do so at this time. This will not release the responsibility from your own shoulders, nor free you from doing your duty. You can and should help yourself. This is an age of self-help, of self man-making, of self-schooling, of self-success, of self-made men. Men, you who live on the farm, dont forget that the farm is hard to beat for a home. The good farmer! Where can you choose a calling to outweigh his in all its advantages? I say it is very hard to equal the farm by taking any business or any profession. Know how to farm well and you can accu mulate and live happily. Young man, your chances to educate yourself on rainy days and at nights and lay-by time, can not be equaled in any business nor in any place. Dont waste the rainy days and your nights. Buy books and study and fill and prepare yourself for your lifes work, whatever you choose as lifes work. V7 ^^f^^ 203 Flying a Kite YOUNG MAX such you call yourself your father and mother call you a boy you are eight or ten years old. You are a boy, but soon the girls will call you a young man, and the older people will call you a young man. The young chicken will soon be called a rooster. The young colt will soon grow to be a horse so it is with you. You will soon be a young man. You are flying a kite, likely, to-day. You have made a kite and tied a string to it and held on to the string, and turned the kite loose and it flew away. Sometimes it would be away up in the clouds, first up and then down on the ground; sometimes it would not fly at all. Again it would be up high in a tree top, or light on the top of a house, and you recollect when the string broke and your kite flew away and left you, you were unable to control or guide it and it was lost. Young boy, what about your future ? What about your future school days? Then, after your school days, comes your business, your trade or calling. What will you prepare your self to be? What will you do when you get old enough to do business; do work ? You will 204 have a calling, a profession, a trade. What will it be? You will soon have to think on this subject, on this point. You will be a great man if you want to be one. You will own what you want and need. You will be whatever you prepare yourself to be. Yes, you will. You will do and carry out your plans. You likely have not made iu> your mind yet. What will you follow? You will do that soon. You must do so, as soon as possible, because time is flying. Recollect the kite. When the kite was well repaired and well made, it flew well. You recollect how it did, but when your string broke or when you failed to handle it correctly, it did not fly, and if you did not watch it and guide it, then it, broke or lit in the tree top or on the house top, and it was a smash-up, a break-up, a loss to you. It was a failure. If you do not prepare yourself at school or at home while young to make a man, you will not grow to be a man. You will also fail, when you start out in your calling, or work. You had a string tied to your kite. Your string tied to you, is the string of honesty, and the string of telling the truth, and minding your father and mother. They who hold the string 205 are your loving parents. They do for you all they can; they are trying to teach and train you to make a good man. They send you to a good teacher to train you in books, and to prepare you to watch yourself, and to keep you from doing like a loose kite running away from school or home. If you fail to go to school and study, you act like the kite did, and get lost sometimes as to your duty. If you do any wrong, it will be like a broken string on a kite, or like a hole punched through the kite, and it never looks as well, nor does it ever fly again like it did when there was no hole in it. Never do wrong, and you will not have a hole or dent in your character. My young boy, THE HELPER has written you a long letter. THE HELPER may not please you the first time you read it, but you read it again soon, and see if it does not read better. You will likely see yourself a few years ahead, do ing some kind of work, some kind of business. THE HELPER is writing to you in this letter. See if you see THE HELPER writing to you and see if you can see the kite you once had. Then look again and see yourself ahead in the next year, and see yourself and see what you will be doing then. Now THE HELPER has written 206 you. You write THE HELPER a short letter, just a few words, and say you received this letter that is in THE HELPER for you. Yours for success in all your happy days. Yours for a fine time at school. Yours for making mama and papa a fine boy, then a young man and then a grown-up and success ful man. You can and will make a success in \ business, in trade or profession. Decide soon what you will follow, when you get grown. s ">----^ The Assayer YOUNG MAN: Suppose you walk into the assayers office and hand him four different pieces of ore. One may be gold, one silver, one coal, one copper. The assayer will take them and soon tell you what each is and what is its value and what used for, etc. Suppose you take yourself to be analyzed or assayed, to the best judge of man in this country ? How long would it take him to tell v/ho you are, and what you are, and what ele- 207 ments in you are good, and how much dross he "would have to throw away, and how great the waste in you? After all, you might be about all cinders, all dross, no good, and he could not recommend you for anything, could not tell you that you were pure and good. You ought to show the gold or good in you, and how much. You may be full of venom and hate; you may be full of laziness; your nerves may be a wreck; you may be a drunkard, a liar, or a thief, or gambler, etc. You may have no good qualities, no sweet disposition, no love for others or anything; you may never hold out, or give a helping hand to yourself, or any one else. The assayers report on you after analyzing you through and through, may be that you are a failure, no good; that you will not do to trust. He may not be able to tell what you were good for, may find you wanting in every respect. "What a report that would be! Wont you read this again? Cant you see some point in it as to how you are going on, and can you not let me aid you to think, to study, to work, and make yourself such that the assayer will say for you: "I found him honest, and true, in dustrious, with pluck, and grit, full of energy, 208 all wool and full width and weight, pure, un adulterated. Take him quickly, as there are few like him, and he will do, and will meet your demands." The assayer put his recommendation and stamp on the gold and so did the business man who assayed you, put his recommendation and name to your value, and it was accepted by all as true and the facts. May you know the true iretal in you, and what it is good for and its value. 209 ME. YOUNG MAN: How old are you? You say, twenty-one or twenty-five. Have you started out in life to make your own career? You say no, or your answer will be, yes. If no, why no, and what reason or excuse have you? If you make an excuse be sure that you accept it yourself; others might say your excuse is not good, and in fact there is no excuse. Hear me, then. Did you ever see a birds nest and see the little birds in it, and they just about 210 grown, and go back, say one week later, and find the young birds had gone ? Your answer, no doubt, would be yes. You have seen that happen often, out on the old homestead where you were raised, and to-day you may be on the same plantation, the same farm, at the same old place where you were raised, or you may be far away from the old home of your boy hood days. It matters not, where you are. These same little birds you saw and recall in their home when able to care for self were told by the mother bird to go out and make their career; go and take care of themselves; go and make a bird in all its meaning; go and hustle and start out in life for themselves; and the little young bird, whether male or female, went out into the great fight of making a bird; making a successful and useful bird, filling its place among its kind; making a living and fulfilling its mission in life. The mother bird said go, and it went. She did not say so till she knew it was time; till the young bird was old enough to make its own living its own career. It did go; it did fill its place in life with success and with honor with its kind. Young man, are you filling your place to rn day? Do you know it is your place and you are in it? Answer your own self. Do not hurry over your answer. It is to you and you only. Why not ? Now meditate and consider and be sure you are fair with self. Dont you know you ought to fill your own place? See it yonder. It is vacant. Look at it. It beckons you to come and fill your place in business, or a profession, or your trade. Listen! "Wont you fill it? Tour place may have been vacant and waiting for you one year, five years, ten years, twenty years. Oh, how long? You may have been trying to fill the wrong place, in the wrong business, wrong job, wrong profession. Go to your place and fill it. The bird has gone, on time, and is now filling its place. Dont you see my point? Dont you see I am correct in your case? Dont you feel like you will arise and go to your place? Fill it while young and while you will fit it, and it will fit you. I wish you prosperity and a happy filling of your own place in life. Yours till we meet again. Did you ever think and figure with so much interest and so much enthusiasm, until you Lad all your being into your figures, into your subject, and you were lost in the depths, so deep down that you had lost sight of all else, knew no sleep, no hunger, no thirst, did not hear anything or anybody? I hope you have at some one time gone down, with yourself, out of sight, away from everything, considering, thinking, figuring, on some great interesting thought. It may have been on the profession you were going to enter, and afterwards did enter; it may have been the business you did go into, or were thinking of entering; it .may have been a home you were seeing in the fu ture and figuring on how to save up for, how to be able to buy it, how to become the owner of the home you were in, or how to reach the one in your thoughts, the one that you saw afar off in the distance. With all your soul, all your power of imagination, you put it in upon the one thing, the home. Oh! how you did figure, alone, deep down in your uttermost self, away down in yourself, where no one could go but you, you with the intensity of a love for home, that enabled you to go so far 213 down. How sweet that moment, that time, was to you ! I hope you have figured that way and I do hope you have realized your hopes, your fig ures. If you have never had that kind of sweet figuring, and thoughts, you have missed a great deaL Wont you try to realize that pleasure? If you will learn how to do this kind of figuring, you will realize, you will be a success. Few men realize, and can throw themselves into their figures and thoughts. May you learn how, and may you see your figures come true. I predict that when you can do it, they will come true, will be realized by "you. There is about one person out of every one thousand that can figure and realize this kind of figuring. I hope you may be the one. If so, thank your God for the great privilege. Try and try till you can, and reap the reward that awaits you. ^ ^ ^ c^ 214 Add Up Your Boy LOOK at a fourteen or sixteen-year-old boy. What do you see ? " The best thing for that age in this country. Look over Mm, look through "him and add him up. What will you find? You will find a future president, you will find the fu ture preacher, you will find the future mer chant, you will find the statesman, the mariner, the teacher, the banker, the railroad owner and manager, you will find the future farmer, the miner, the coal king, the man that will own and control and make the future. Yes, this is all true and more, yet more and more unthought of development. So the boy is a big thing and important object. The boy of to day means something in the future, the boy of to-day can say in a short time, "I will con trol, I will make, I will decide, I will bring to pass." Say, father and mother, that is your boy, that will bring to pass the above sayings; no mistake, no error in this, it is a fact, it is true; add up, go back and read and think and ask and you will know that it is true and that the future all hangs and swings backward and forward with these boys. Where are your boys? Are they counting on these things? 215 Did you tell them that they had to fill their places? If not, you have not done your duty. Mother, have you fully explained and encour aged your boy on to the future and his place ? His place is so important to him and the State he lives in. Did you tell him about it ? THE HELPER is telling you. You tell your son. You can also read THE HELPER or get him to do so and you back him up and encourage him. Your son must fill his place among men; yes, he must do so, and you can aid him to do it. Father and mother, recollect just to clothe and feed your children is not all, just to help edu cate is not all. If you merely educate in books at college, that is good and proper; but listen and think! You must educate at the cradle, at the fireplace, at the bed, at the home. In still into the boy those qualities that parents can and should teach and that the boy can not get anywhere else on earth. You live a home life and teach a home life. Listen once again, father. Tell your boy early in life the evils and chances and the temptations, that come to the boy. Do not be a fool on this point and say you are ashamed to tell or talk to your boy. Do you want him to wait and take chances on getting ruined while you are waiting for some 21G one else, who is not interested, to tell him? No! A sensible man will talk plainly to his boy and tell him. You are a fool if you do not, and your boy will find it out likely too late. Mother, talk plainly to your daughter early in life; do not fail, act foolishly at some other stage and point in your life, but do not act foolishly with your daughter. Talk to her privately, not with some other woman, no, no, but you talk plainly to her and in time and privately. Why, some big mouthed women will talk all kinds of stuff before their daugh ters about some other woman and fail to talk straight, honest every-day hard sense to their daughter about living. It is a proposition that the old devil would be afraid to try to solve out, why parents neglect so important a mat ter. May you, father and mother, see and feel and appreciate what THE HELPER indicates in this letter to you. Success to the boys and the girls. They are the salt of the earth. 217 EVEN an old sow loves her young, and she builds a home that she and her young pigs can live in, and keep warm. This mother did this much for her young. If this sow will do so much for hers, what should mother and father do for theirs ? Please an swer according to your raising and according to your desires. Has your life proven what you are ? Has your life been a light, set upon a bin, or have you hid it under laziness, under dont care ? Have you any light burning any where? Is the future all O. K.? Will you 218 climb up on the hill-top and look around and about you? r J/P^^&'tf^^s Sc^ ZC^ *? MY YOUNG MAN: What is the first thing birds do when they marry? They go out and look about, and find a place to build a home for their young; then they each, male and fe male, commence to build and each does his part and they do not stop until they build a home. Note another fact, that they do not rent a home from any other bird, nor do they use a home, that was used last year by another bird. This is the way birds do when they marry. How did you do, when you married ? How are you going to do when you marry? THE HELPER pauses for the answer. Lay aside each week some of your salary. You can save a lit tle each week or each month, out of your wages. Save by the week is the best way, if you draw wages by the week. And you can build you a 219 home, if you have not already built one. Will you do it ? Do you want to listen to me ? Are you sure ? If so, prepare yourself to give THE HELPER an honest hearing, and, if you do not catch my point and meaning, anywhere along as we pro ceed, do not continue. But you turn back a few pages and hear me say it again, and I feel sure you will fully understand me. You know it is unfair and embarrassing to me to go on, if you do not keep up with me, nor catch my meaning. I try to be plain and fair in what I say, and I want you to get close to me and me to you. You study about a home and want one and you will reach and own one success to you. MY FRIEND : If THE HELPER points you the way to a home for yourself and your wife and babies, it will be a helper in name and in deedAll THE HELPER asks of you is to read and study and look and believe and the way will 220 open up for you to reach a home. Look and ex pect and believe and work to that end and you will own and realize a home. When you decide to have a home, write me and say you and wife have decided to commence to get a home. 221 Did You Buy a Book MR. FATHER: How often do you leave your farm, or place of business, and go to town, to buy something to eat or wear! One more question, if you please; hear it. How often did you buy a book of some kind at some price? They are worth from ten cents to twenty-five dollars each. Did you ever buy one and carry it home to your boy or girl? You say you went each week, and often each day in the week to town. Did you buy one or more drinks of whiskey or beer ? What re turns did you get from the drink? Did you feed your hungry stomach with meat or fish f KTow, you say you did not carry home a good book to feed the minds of your children. They are hungry for knowledge, and they will feed, if you will only give them the food. You hold up next time you go to town, and try and buy something good to feed the childrens mind, and watch them feed, when you present it to them. You listen, and watch them feed. Help them digest the food, night after night, and you will enjoy, and feed your own brain at the same time. 222 Recollect it is your duty to feed your chil drens brains, as well as to feed the body and clothe their nakedness. Will you do it? Or will you be too low down, and not care for your offspring, your product? "Would you have them just like you, or would you have them as they should be ? Will you think, will you hear THE HELPER? Will you stop and think and figure, or will you pass THE HELPER by, and your children by? Will you neglect your duty? Will you fuss at THE HELPER? Will you take it out in grumbling and fussing, and growling at THE HELPER? What will you gain by fussing and complaining at THE HELPER, and your family, and your wife, and yourself, and your children, and your neigh bor? Mr. Father: Have you done your duty to wards wife, and children? I am asking a plain question. Dont lie. You can not an swer that you did as much as a father, as your wife did as a wife, or as the children did as children? Was it not your duty to do more than both wife and children? Does or does not the world look to you, and expect you to do more, and better than they? You are the head of the family. If so, act the man. As the head 223 look after your own, and see that you train the boy, and the girl to be true and faithful to themselves, and rely upon themselves, and be able to judge for themselves; and teach them that they are as good and perfect as any one; that they breathe the same air, that they warm by the same sun day and night, that their path way is lighted by the same moon, and the same stars, as other people. Whether one be rich or poor, king or queen or president, God gave to all the same day, the same night, the same sun, moon, and stars, the same rain and snow, the same climate. What more do you ask, what more ought you to expect, what else do you need I God would have given you more had you needed it. You can not and must not complain. If you do, you will be ungrateful to your father and mother, and your God. Now is your day. Use it. To-morrow you may not see, or if you do, may not be ready to act, to use it for your betterment. Will you do it, will you accept to-day freely? Without price ac cept it; dont put it off any longer. 224 The Teacher MR. TEACHER: You are a teacher, if you try to train a boy or man in any one thing, whether in the mer cantile business, or manufacturing, or farm ing, or school teaching, or any line of busi ness. The word teacher is broad and reaches out into many lines, many avenues. Tour responsibility is so large, so big, far-reach ing and important. Wont you, who can, under this class, give yourself and your work a study now, while we say a word? I mean you. Yes! you are a teacher at your own home, at your own hearthstone, at night and in the day, to your own offspring, your own flesh and blood, teaching your own dear chil dren. May each teacher place himself in this letter, in THE HELPER, in his proper place, as a teacher, and realize his responsibility. If all my men, who come under this head, would be teachers in truth and in reality, would fill their places well, would realize their responsi bility to the business, to themselves and to the men they handle and teach, with what ease I could travel in business; and with what ease the teacher could travel, because the one he 225 teaches \vouH be so much help to him, and on and up all would go together. The manager is more or less a teacher. Ha teaches himself and his men under him. The merchant is more or less a teacher. If he fails to train and teach his clerk, he will pay heav ily for the errors of the clerk. The same is true in fanning and manufacturing, railroad ing, mining, and in all lines and professions. Place yourself as a teacher to-day, and read and consider what it means to your business, to your work and those with you. Very few are the good trainers, good teachers. Oh! if the world had more, what a great thing it would be! "Teacher," this word covers a large field. Xo doubt you are in it; if not, you may be some day. If so, read me closely and carefully. I will not dwell or be long, but between the lines you can dig up and get thoughts that will keep you thinking for some time, and really, that is my object in this let ter to you. Xow go back and read between the lines and get your place, and work it out hon estly and do your duty as a teacher, as a trainer and a pattern for others to go by. Xow, Mr. Professor in the schoolroom, your work is so big and so good and so im- 226 portant. You are not only a teacher, but a leader. Do you know your business ? Do you realize what you are trying to do? Do you know the seed you are sowing? _ Your field is the mind field, the brain field, the best field God ever gave man to cultivate, the best, and richest field. In your field you prepare men to fill the highest places in the country, the field of the ministry, where great is its oppor tunity to teach, the field of commerce, manu facturing, the farm fields, agriculture, mining, engineering, law, medicine, journalism, maga zines, books, political economy, and the field of living and dying. Oh, so much comes under your work! Look it up, choose your place. Do you fill your place well? If not, why take the responsibility of ruining a student, by not being able to explain the books, or to give practical thoughts, to help and stimulate him to go on and finish his school days, his work, his profession? You need to be posted; you need great firmness, great knowledge and en thusiasm, and to be able to so give it to the student that he will see hope and success ahead when he finishes. Show him how he can continue school, even if he has not a dollar. You should be able to 227 suggest how to get the money, how to make the money. Yes, you should be able to do this. You may think that this part of it, getting the money, does not come under your profession. Oh, yes. This is one of the fine and high points in your work. If you are not posted on this, you may fail to be able to make a man, but by your ignorance may lose one. If you cause a man to fail, what will you hare to pay in the great wind-up, when it is said of you, you did not know your duty, you did not do your duty 1? Professor, your duty is to make men, to raise men, man-making, woman-making. You know and I know, there are too many fools, as teachers, in the school room. When a boy eight years old calls some teacher, professor a few times and then the boys father and mother call him professor, he then often thinks he is a professor and he knows it all, and then he quits studying and soon becomes a full-fledged professional fooL Hear me! Your work is fine and good. Do your best and you will he crowned for your labors. You can make a good teacher if you study and work and love your work and do your best. May you do it well, and I predict your labor 228 will be crowned here and in the hereafter, and you will live, in your scholars, years after you pass into the beyond, and your students will let you live, in them, year after year, and no one can number the years you will live, after you are dead in body. MR. MERCHANT, MANUFACTURER, CLERK, DOCTOR OR FARMER: It is a frequent occur- ; rence with you and other business and pro fessional men, that they grow in money mak ing with only a small business, a business that fails to grow on up. Then, when they get a cash surplus on hand, they put that cash into some other mans enterprise and often some other mans trick, some other mans business plans for him to work and make him a big re turn on their money that they made by hard licks, hard saving and economizing. Listen! The first error is, you should in crease your own business, so that you can work more capital. You can often do this by study- 229 ing and increasing your own brain powerr brain capacity to do a bigger business. Again, you can study to use your surplus money in city or town property, or farm property, and can invest it so that in the end with increased value it will pay you a satisfactory return, and you need not take such a big risk in another mans trick. There are exceptions to this rule, now and then. "When you are told once how to do a thing and you do it, you should be able the next day to do the same thing correctly and you should do it without being told to do it again. Often men and boys have to be told over and over again to do their daily work. All wage-earn ers, all classes o help should take great inter est in their work. If possible, put yourself in the place of the proprietor, the owner, the managers place. You then can do well and good. It is hard to do, but valuable if you da it. 230 MY FRIEND : If this HELPER is a help to you and your family, it will be a help to your friend and neighbor. You tell him about it and tell him to get one. But, if you do not consider it a valuable HELPER, in the hands of any fam ily, then tell him not to buy it. If valuable to you and yours, then I see no reason why not to your neighbor, and if valuable, you will tell him about it. fs~~- ^/T 2^?xJt.z^ ^ C^ 273 Have You Your Ticket? MEX, I have, before to-day, often talked to you and written to you on your work and on living a life. I have, as you well know, tried to point out to you the road that you should go to make a success and to make a life. Suppose you fail to make a success in life. Who will mourn your depart ure from this world, from this life 1 Well, my men, I tell you truly and tell you honestly my opinion. There will be but few if any, who will mourn long. Some one of the immediate family may wear crape on a hat or a long black veil on a hat, but in truth they do not mourn long. They will soon forget you, soon forget to mourn for you; you must be a man who does things, or there will be no 274 mourning for you. We will say in passing, they will miss you. For what ? I am not say ing ; but be careful and be thoughtful for your self; look after yourself. If you do not, who will? No one. Will you consider and think" on yourself and your life, while we meditate, while we figure, if you please, while we talk, and think what you are living for ? What is your aim in life ? Where will you land in this world and where in the next ? If you land here at a given point, say in business^ say in your profession, will you land at some given point in the next world? Well, if you prefer, suppose for argument you leave out the other world, the beyond the river; well, we will leave it out; but God will not. He will soon call you to a reckoning. You may have no day-books to guide you in your testimony as to what you did here and if you are not posted, and you are liable not to be posted, you are not keeping a record of your ways, your deeds, your thoughts. You may be, as many are in life, too lazy to keep a day-book and ledger of your expenses and of your income. Mark here, if you please, your income is your wages, your store profits, your farm ex penses and your profits, each and every thing. 275 The hen that lays the eggs which you eat or sell, the cow and she is important her milk and butter which you eat or sell, and all the pigs and hogs, all should go down on your ledg er and you should know and keep a record, so that you may know and know exactly how you live and what is making profits ancl what is losing. Do you know? If not, why not? Do you keep a record, if not, you are lazy and indif ferent. If not, you lack business qualities, you lack sense, you prefer not to do so. The mer chant, if up-to-date, will take stock, will see what he has on hand every six months, or every twelve months at least. He will add up the gain and add up the loss and he will figure and know what he did and what he made and lost during the six or the twelve months. Will you do that with your goods, with your profes sion, with your farm, or factory? Why not with yourself, above all else your own life, your daily life, that you have lived for the six months or the twelve months. You surely will not add your stock in trade, your profession and neglect above all the best stock in trade, the best profession, the best thing, the only 276 lasting thing and the thing that is above all the best and most important, yourself. You are the main thing, the best of all and the richest asset you have, and when you lose yourself, then the best asset is gone and gone forever, you, I say, gone? Are you ready to go ? Is your family ready for you to go ? Is your business ready for you to go? If not, why not? What are you waiting on? What will you do, if given a few more years ? Wfll you at this point stop and go back and consider over again what we are saying and figuring on ? Yes, figuring on. You will go. You will readily admit, yes, you are forced to admit it, you know it. You may not consider, but you have that privilege. You, I hope have used that privilege often and maybe all your life. You put it off, and yet, you know, that road you will have to go some day, and perhaps at no distant day. Fix up in this country your affairs for this country and fix up for the next country. When you get there, you will need to be fixed. You will have to go, you know you will. Dont you think it is worth your- thought and your well being in the next, to prepare here for the next? Dont you know and realize that you 277 should do so ? Why not ? What can or. will you gain to waste and not even take time to prepare for the crossing of the river? The river is near by you, however much of life may remain. Have you engaged passage, have you the check, the ticket to land you safely? You buy your railroad ticket and berth in sleeping car to go to New York or San Fran cisco, you get a through ticket, or if you go to Europe you get state-rooms on the ship, you get reservation tickets for the trip. Now, in all candor and fairness, in all good reason and common horse-sense, dont you think you had better get passage and keep on hand a reserve ticket or mileage book to cross when you are called on to go to the world be yond? Men, let us consider all along in life, beyond the living in this country, beyond the mere making of a living or chasing of a dollar, that we will have to leave behind. Our bag gage can be checked and delivered in Europe safely and all O. K., but our baggage to the other country, the other world, is our ownselves, the only baggage that can be checked, or that will be allowed to go. Get yourself ready and keep ready. Your train may leave very soon and you will have to 278 get aboard and you may not have any time to get a ticket. Look out! The day and time is daily approaching. Tou and I, have we our tickets ? Are we ready to go ? What is your answer? I wish you a pleasant trip and a suc cessful landing. Tours for thought and for meditation in solitude and for safe landing at the proper station, made for the good and thoughtful man and for the man who has his ticket. Money will not buy the ticket for you. Right living will get the ticket. Can you buy it now, or will you buy it later on for that trip ? 279 This is an age of close figuring. Have you figured? If not, why not? Are you too lazy to protect your own and your familys well being? When a manager or collector writes pertain ing to business or men in my office or any one of my other offices or business, mark on let ter. Private, and it will be kept private. Love your work and do it well. It takes grit, energy, pluck and great enthusiasm to make a great success. Lift yourself up higher, with yourself. 280 I have trained a good many men to make a man and a success in life, but I am hindered by so many managers and collectors, clerks and help, not doing their duty. They are hold ing down some one while I am trying to pull him up. If the manager will not do his duty he is holding back the collector and keeping him from building up and getting a managers position. And if the collector is lazy and wastes his time and does not try or care, he is holding the manager and the other collector and other help back from a better business and a better success. MY FRIEND: Arent you the young man that promised to stay with THE HELPER and go with it and study and read it till we reached the end in THE HELPER? Keep your promise. Do not break a promise. Your promise is good and counts and the other fellow believes you, when you make a promise. 281 Listen! Did you ever buy a book and read1 the first few pages, and then read a chapter or a few pages at the end of the book, and then say you read the book, but you did not like it, or that you did like it. My friend, the man who wrote the book would not have done so, if he had thought you would not have given him a fair show, would not have given him a fair hearing. You did yourself, and him, an in justice by not reading the entire book from one end to the other. The part you skipped may have been the main and better part, and the only place that brought out more clearly the true essence, the backbone and the Efe of the book. When you know you are on the wrong side, and hurting, flop over on the right side. Why be a fool longer? An honest man will change when he sees he is on the wrong side. 282 What do you mean when, after work hours, you sit around and chat and talk about the other fellow or the other woman in the case ? What have you to gain by neglecting and talk ing about some one else ? What are you doing to make a man, to make a business, to acquire a profession, to get a home for wife and babies, or for your future wife? You will find good room to figure all along on these lines. Wake up, man! Time is going by you. Look back and see how much time you have let go by you, just as swift as the engineer lets his engine pass the telegraph poles at a mile a minute. THE HELPER is putting energy and simplicity, and earnestness all along on every page, to warn you, to cause you to think for yourself. I know I fall short of my work; I ought to do better, but if you get something good for you, then I have not written in vain. 283 MR. MANAGER: DEAR SIR : I thank you for your letter and the ideas it contains. I did not know myself, that I had so many men who would try hard to write me a good letter, or how to do business and train men, and actually do it. A great honor to them, and I am proud of the letter and of them. Carry out your ideas in business and your rules with yourself, collectors, clerks and customers, and you will make great suc cess, as I believe you will do. You see it and feel it as never before. It would do you good to see the letters I have received. You can not imagine how good they are. I know my men did not know they could write so well on this point. I know they felt better and bigger after writing their letters to me. The field for a let ter and business is big. It is dealing with a man and a dollar, two big things. No two things so large. Man and a dollar mean riches and it takes brain to see it. It is often said to me by some of my men: "Some of your letters are worth easily one thousand dollars." Well, boys, I would not recall my letters and withhold the contents and the opportunity it gave you to express your selves freely to me about how to handle the 284 business and yourself, for five thousand dol lars. It will cause some of my men to get rich, and some will make honest and true and brainy men, and that is more than wealth. It is a pleasure to cause men to reach up higher and to make men and win success. I could not work as I do, if I was not realizing and seeing my men succeeding in knowledge and in wealth. I am glad to state that my business in all lines as a whole, is better than it has been in years. I never saw men work so regularly, so well, so hard, as they have in the last sixty days; and the work has just begun. Watch the im provement, watch the growth, look at the busi ness and your men and watch each grow. Watch, I say, for the next sixty days the growth in brain, in improvement, in capacity and in business. Again thanking you for your letter, I am as ever your friend and co-laborer, for more brains, more knowledge, more man hood and more business. 285 There is no harm, I hope, in saying more than once, that all men ought to be honest and true and that all should have something laid up for a rainy day, and for old age. Then do not complain if you see it more than once in THE HELPER. You say a biscuit is good, and you eat it often. No harm in eating it or saying it is good. !NTow watch my point on you. If THE HELPER is good to read to-day and for you, it will be good for you to-morrow, and good for your children. Can you doubt it? Can you sav I over-draw the biscuit or THE HELPER? Do You Waste Your Time? "Waste of time is so common among men that it seems useless to call attention to it; so few will consider and stop to think of their time. Time is about all some men have and they could make that time bring them a business or a profession or a home. But they count it but little, when it is wealth. Some rich men would give for a few more years added to their lives all the millions they have made. What they own was obtained by using time profitably and they are willing to buy more time at a great high price. They 386 are not dead with old age, or sick, either, but know what time is and its value; and you! what have you done with your time and what are you doing to-day with it? Your time is worth a fortune and will make success. Will you use it ? Will you figure it up and see what it is and its value ? Get hold of yourself and your time, that God gave you. He expected you to use it and not abuse it, not waste it. Will you to-day give to yourself and your time some of your thoughts ? It is up to you to consider or to reject and waste all of it. What say you? . Note how often you have promised yourself what you would be and backed out, and how you would not talk to yourself when your sou] cried out, "What will I be. And when will I be what I long for?" 287 Hear me. As you study and read THE HELPER, if anything that has been said has kindled in your soul, in "your breast a spark of determination, to win in the fight for suc cess in life, then I have won at my efforts. If I can win, so can you. Renew the spark, and see that it is kept alive in you, and let it burn day and night, and you will win. Do you like THE HELPER up to and as far as you have read and studied it ? If so, I am glad. If not, I am sorry. You see, it is your opinion that either makes me glad or makes me sorry. You see, your approval or your dis approval cuts a big figure in this age, in this country, in this work. So it is well to use your judgment and use it well. Let it strike whom it will; let it affect whom it will, but use your judgment and give your opinion honestly. Ever and forever be true to self and to your own opinion, after mature thought on the sub ject. 288. If you succeed, some good man will follow and do likewise. If you fail, some weak man will follow you. What will you do with this proposition before you? Where will you put your influence ? Will you be able to explain what you read in THE HELPEB and then will you try if you find help to put it into practice ? In order to be prepared to get close to THE HELPER and for THE HELPER to get close to you, turn back, and read again, what you have so far read. You missed, no doubt, some good point, that you would have liked, and you would have got ten a point, an idea, that would have lasted a long time, yes, for years or for life. Try it! Bead again. 289 Watch Danger. When an old hen hollers or cackles, and says to the little ones, "hawk," they at once run to her. When your mother cries out dan ger keep away from bad associates. Children should mind, and at once be taught to obey, and when older, they will know better, and be able to keep away from danger. Many business men are suffering for the want of a manager, or leader, a good and true helper, who does have nerve and courage to do things. Wont you prepare yourself for a managers place? There are plenty of places in any line of business. You can prepare. Say you will. When a man thinks he knows it all, and the other fellow is a fool, then it is time to ask himself, "may it not be that I am the fool?" Let him ask and look for the stars in his crown, or better still, ask his neighbor and friend if he sees any star in his crown. 290 Do You Figure? YOU say you notice that I call attention to figuring up and considering, not only yourself, but in any business fig ure. You say that you are not good in figures. It is very easy, does not require much knowledge to do it. If you are not lazy, you can soon learn to figure, by taking down your arithmetic from the shelf. You laid it away once when you quit school, and if you can not find it, go and buy an arithmetic. You can do this. Have you man enough in you to do it and study ? You can also get a dictionary and writing pads if necessary; you can educate yourself, if you have backbone, if you have energy, if you have good blood in you, if you can say you will and then do it. You need not think for one moment, this is easy for you to do. You knew long ago that you could study some each night; but rather than do it you resolved to be ignorant, you preferred to see others do what you could have done, stand high up in a good many things, in your town, in your county, in your neighbor hood. They will use you to great profit to your self and themselves, now if you will prepare yourself. There are many men who educated 291 themselves in books, and in knowledge of busi ness, and in their profession. You never see a failure, when you see a man that accom plished things this way under great disadvan tages, with hard trials. You try, make the effort, and see for your self. 5Vill you do it? Or will you continue to be a failure, continue to be sorry, continue to earn but little in wages, all because you are no good and all your neighbors know it, and often remark about your ignorance, and about the small salary you make, all agreeing that you get fully as much as you are worth? All these years you have lived and your salary has not increased to any amount worth men tioning. Cant you add up your loss ? Well, I guess it is almost lost, your entire life thrown away, because you would not try to make a man that would count, that would do things. I say again to you, figure and look at^yourself. Tell me, listen, deep down in yourself. How much studying of books have you done in the last twelve months? You say, "Scarcely any." Can you make a crop of corn or pota toes or cotton without working it? No! and you know it. Can you make a crop of brains without working and cultivating it? No! but 292 you have been fool enough to try it, and you failed. Go to work on your brain, and fit yourself to fight the actual battles of life, your life, fight for success with yourself, for self support, self development, self will. Quit promising to do, and not doing. Lying is a sin, if you tell it on your neighbor. But to continue month after month and year after year lying and promising yourself to do some thing, and not doing it! Young man, read again, over and over, and you promise your self to stand for your own rights and for mak ing of a man and success and you will win the fight, and, when you do, I will shake hands again with you. V7 f ^&^^^^ 293 Dont be a kicker, kicking at everythiag and everybody. A kicker is a very sorry man, kicking at his lodge, his church, his office holders, the weather, everything. He wants it to be some other way. If you are a kicker, move out of your neighborhood, and all will be well with the people you leave behind, but hell to the community into which you move. THE HELPER asks you if you need help, to read and study THE HELPER, but if not, will add, it might entertain you any way to read it. The word help does not mean dollars and cents. ]$To; this HELPER is not a dollar-and-cent prop osition, that is the small point in it. THE HELPER is a man helper, a man trainer, a man lover. Do you need anything that comes under that headline ? If not, travel some other way. Pass THE HELPER by, and look for other things. Just a dollar and no man, you would not fill the bill you were made to fill. Yours for yourself, and the dollar next. 294 The Lost Sheep. MB. WAGE EARNER: Well! how is it with you to-day? Same as last year, or have you decided to have a profession, a business ? Now, be candid, be true. What profession, what business, have you chosen? Well, it is well for you, if you have settled the matter with yourself. You and you only will have to decide with and for yourself. You can not get help, and the more you try the farther off you will get, and then delay may be on and on, going down the road like a lost sheep, bleating, looking, wandering and lost. Did you ever hear the cry, the bleating of a lost sheep ? It is sad, it is mournful, it is lone some. Are you lost as to yourself, as to your lifes work? Dont pass it by and not con sider. Dont say, "wait until a more conven ient time." Dont say when you feel like it, when you can decide. This day may be the only day for you to decide, for you to choose. You are called to-day. It is knocking at the business door, the professional door of your soul, of your brain, longing for the answer. Choose to-day. If you can not, ask the knock to linger, and give you another day. 295 May you choose, may you choose well, may you fire up your heart-string, that will burn in you till you do decide. May it never die out, and may you decide correctly. Give your family the right of way for your spare time, your time when you are at ease from business or professional worries. They will enjoy you if you go home, with mind on home, mind on wife and children. Go home to have a good time, a fine time, and all have a good and pleasant evening, reading, playing, singing. Life is sweet and worth living. Make home the best and happiest place on earth. Let each one of the family feel and know it is his duty to himself, and to the others in the fam ily, to make a good time. 296 When I write you, I try to be plain, so that any twelve-year-old boy can understand me, and if he chooses, get what there is in what I say and utilize it to his good. Do you like a beautifully kept yard ? If so keep yours beautiful. Be faithful to your family, be faithful to your home affairs; be faithful to your job, to your manager; be faithful to the boss, to the foreman, and above all, to yourself. Honor yourself in youth, and in old age you will not depart from it. Do you like to see a home painted, and kept beautiful to the eye, and the wood work from decaying, thus preserved? If so, save up cash, and paintyour house. Some women put all the paint on their faces, and let the house go. 297 YOTJE brain wants to show how it can grow. Will you buy a good book and read it, or will you stand still and see your brain die the death of poverty? Feed your brain. You can starve it to death. Be thankful for what you are and what you have? If you have done your duty, you will reach out and get more and more in your work, in your lifes work, and success will crown your efforts. Does poverty sting you financially, or have you abnormal wants, and are you unreasonable in your desires ? You may have plenty, if you will correctly live your life. You had better look up and see if you are treating yourself fairly and honestly. Kindness is a great factor in business. Be kind to your employees. They will never for get it, and will pay you back with kindness and watchfulness of your business interest. 298 WHEN a merchant needs a clerk, he will ask questions like the follow ing: "Is he honest? Is he sober? Is he industrious? Is he capable, or will he try to make himself so ? Will he be faithful to the trust placed in him?" STou are traveling, traveling, lifes road. Is it satisfactory? Is it beautiful to you? Are you enjoying it, are you contented? If your road is not good, better stop and fix it. It may. have washouts; bridges may be down; some thing bad in the road. Pathers, keep in touch with your children, when at home and when they are away from home; keep up with and know your own house hold. Write often to your father and mother. They love you and have often said, "I hope my boy will do well and will make a good man, and a successful man." They are about the only ones who pray for you. If this HELPER was not a helper, I would not ask you to read it. I would not give you the opportunity! I do not like a bashful man; but I do Like for a man, if he knows he has something good, to say so, and say it plainly, so that it will be heard and understood. I tell you now, I know THE HELPER helped my men. They said so, and I know it by the suc cess that it helped lead them to make. I know, if good for my men, it is good for you, or for any man. Yes; it is good for anybody, and all classes, and professions. Do you think the agent or merchant who sells it would lie to you ? No, they would not. No, you know they would not, because to do so would mean failure. I am dealing with my work and my profession, handling men, and pointing out my experi ence and knowledge, that I stored away year after year. My experience and knowledge did me good, and it will do you good in business. 300 Do you like a good and beautiful vegetable garden? Then keep yours that way. PAY your doctors bill. He is good to you, and puts in his brain and knowledge to cure you. You might be dead to-day, if he had not done his duty. A doctor is far above the average man. Pay him promptly. Pay the merchant. He is good enough to trust you, and he helped you. Now in return, you keep your honor, and pay him up promptly. Keep your accounts paid up. You can not do your work well and be worried over your debts. Bather stint yourself, and do not go too deep in debt. You no doubt have tried it, and you know it will not do. Control your self and family and hold up; save some as you go along. Why will you not get hold of your will power and go so far and no farther? Carry yourself up to a better manhood, a bet ter life, one that you and everybody will be glad to see, and that they can point to with pride. . 301 Are You a Job-Hunter? BOS S, listen to me. I need good and hon est and true men. I can make you a success. Why not? Listen to me. I have men who started with me at $15.00 or $25.00 a month, and are now rich and are to day with me. A five or fifteen dollar raise did not take them away from their place. A man is a fool, if he is with a good man and is satisfied, to change for a ten dollar raise. He is a job hunter. Xot a successful life hunter, not a man, but merely a hireling, a dollar moving him from one job to another, with no idea of a man or duty to himself. I call him a fool. Do not stay with me, if you are not satisfied with me, but get where you can be satisfied. But if you appreciate me and my work, then go in to make a man and a success in life, and work and not waste your time; work and think, work and promise yourself, you will be a successful man, honest and true and a help to mankind- I wish you success in life and will help you make a success. ^&^^^ 302 O you think your Maker, the God of you, and this world, would deny you the right to climb up higher? Dont you believe the world was made for you, and when the world was made, dont you think He also made it possible for you to climb up and make a success ? I be lieve it and can not believe any other way. If you believe it and if you think that there is room for you, then act upon it. If you do not believe it, you tear down your own ladder that reaches from poverty to success. Do not take it down. It is yours, it is your own ladder. Climb up, start to-day! Delay is dangerous. Man, if you do not believe as I do, I want to ask you, dont tell your boy, that there is no room for him higher up. Dont 303 take his ladder down from him. For heavens sake, let him see it, and feel that there is a ladder for him, and that he can climb it. Do not tell your associates that there is no hope. Rob no man of his hope. Never take the light out of the soul of any man or boy. Tea, kindle it anew. At all times let it fire him, let him climb. V /^^f^r S*~^ ' 'V""~^ 304 DID you ever go to see the monkeys act in a vaudeville show ? They usually act, on the stage, twenty minutes, not longer than thirty minutes at a time. Let me tell you of six monkeys that are trained to act and make fun and entertain at the theatre. Not long since, a man trained his monkeys to act their part well, and in harmony, each tak ing his turn individually, or all together, just as the act called for. Each one did his part ex tra well, and knew it well, and when to do it, and when he was through he left his post and returned to his seat in decency and in order. These monkeys entertained large crowds night after night. The owner took great pains with them, watched after their diet and their health 305 closely and did not allow them to see company or associate with other monkeys. They, loved him, and obeyed "him, and they practiced their parts regularly. Please note that they prac ticed their parts regularly and kept posted all the time. They loved their work, they knew their business well and worked with enthusi asm, with great energy, and watchfulness. How well they acted their part you can know, by my telling you what their owner received for their labor, for their skill in acting upon the stage. Ifow, I am talking about a monkey, and some people think they know some other people who favor a monkey. Well, it might be an honor for some to be like these monkeys, in doing a job well and getting the same pay to do it. These six monkeys, or their owner, received for each nights twenty minutes act, one hun dred dollars, six hundred dollars a week, twen ty-four hundred dollars for four weeks, one month, or four hundred dollars for four weeks for one monkey. You ask why does a monkey, who never went to school a day and can not talk, and is only four years old, make so much per month, working only twenty or thirty min utes a day ? Well, the answer is plain, I think. 306 The monkey learned some one thing well enough to do it well, and to entertain because he could do it well. The monkey had a good trainer or teacher, and he paid attention and studied his lesson, and learned it, and kept out of bad company, did not get drunk, did not steal, did not waste time, did not lie, did not do a great many things that men do so often; especially those who fail in life. Man is Gods best animal, and His highest prize. God said to him: "Do this and thou shalt live or do this and thou shalt die." Yet, I say, He gave him the will to do or not to do; placed him where he could succeed if he wanted to do so, or he could fail if he would do so. God gave him the privilege to take either road. Look how many go the wrong road, go down instead of going up. Now, I call attention, and I want you to lis ten to me. You must recollect that these mon keys are but four years old. You, how old are you ? Do not say it loud, we are only talking privately, just looking about, and just talking about six monkeys. You say you are twentyfive or did you say thirty-five years old f You say you went to school, year after year. What did you say that monkey got each month? I 307 said four hundred dollars. Say, wont you read that over again? Tell it again? No, you read it again, let me go on, let me finish before you read again. Now, in all candor, please tell me what you can do well, and satisfactorily to yourself, or to the man or company for whom you work. Tell me what can you do well? What have you tried to do well, and how long did you follow it up to do it well, giving all your best energies and efforts to do well ? I have told you what the monkey got per month. Now be fair and honest and tell me no one else what you are getting per month ? Tell me also what work you love and follow. Next time you see me we will talk over this again and I will go into details over the whole subject and will point out more particularly the ups and downs of the life of the monkey, and the life of a man and the way that man can reach success. I wish you a pleasant and prosperous year. 308 T HINK of your dog. Now, I am going to talk about my dog of long ago. Go with me for a while in memory to the past and when my dog and I roamed in the fields and woodlands for sport and pleasure and meat. Listen men! Did you ever own a good dog? I want to tell you of my hunting dog that I owned when I was about 10 years old. I recol lect him to this day, and will carry his memory to the grave with me. I loved my dog as many a boy loves his dog. I loved him because he was valuable, because he was a good dog. We were together often in a chase for rabbits, 309 squirrels, eats, coons and opossums. He was a combination dog, if you please. I mean by that, that he could chase more than one thing; more than one animal. He could chase and tree and catch the rabbit or squirrel, coon, opossum, or hogs or cattle in the field. He was the more valuable on the farm on account of these fine qualities. Few men can chase more than one line of business and make a success. But this dog was good at more than one thing. I never saw his equal then or since. Another good quality in him was that he was a great fighter and he was equally as successful in this line as in his capacity as a hunter. His main quality in fighting and win ning or whipping the other dog was, he would catch hold and hold to the other dogs foot, his fore foot, and you if you are up on a dog fight know that a dog can not hold and fight if you hurt or squeeze his fore foot. He will soon give up and leave the fight. He was great on getting a good hold in a fight and he stuck to it, he fought more like a bulldog as to the point of holding on, with that bulldog grip. Now I hunted often with this dog, and it was his life, it was his profession, it was his job, if you please, and he dearly loved it. My men, 310 do you love your job, your work? He would quit eating to go hunting in daytime or at night, and he would be fresh, when you were broken down. I loved it but he could beat me or any of my playmates. Soon there came to our county a tribe of Indians, camping about two miles from my fathers home. My dog, in some way, out hunting, came up with these Indians. They were hunting. The dog at once fell in love with the Indians, because the In dians loved hunting and so did the dog. So my dog followed the Indians to their camp. I found it out in a few days, because my dog was well known in the settlement, in the county. I went over after him, because I missed him, my friend. The Indians took my word that the dog was mine and gave him back to me, and I took him home. So long as I hunted, all was well with my dog, but if I skipped a few days, the dog would go back to the Indians camp and then I would go looking for my dog and find him with the Indians again. In a few months my father moved sixteen miles away from that point into a town of two thousand peo ple and I went to school in that town. My dog remained only a week or two and then 311 he left me again to go back to the Indians, where they hunted most of the time. So again, I went for my dog and brought him home, and I went hunting with him then only on Satur days, so he left me again. I then said to the Indians: You keep him and care for him and hunt with him as often as you can; that I could not give him his full desire in his chosen profession. "Since he is a hunter," I said, "let him stay with the Indians. It pains me to give you up, my dog, but my duty is plain to me." I must give him up or hunt with him and I said good-bye to my dog. He loved his job, he was a hunter in its full meaning, loving it even better than he did me or himself. He would often risk his life to win the fight with wild animals. He loved his work, he did his best faithfully; he used great energy and great enthusiasm in his calling, and I often think I got some of my enthusiasm and energy from my dog. It was as pure and as good as gold and I have never seen any better in dog or in man. Listen, my friend, another point in my dogs life. This dog was a great hunter in his nature and I especially call your attention to the fact that it was pure love; that this 312 Tmnter chased a rabbit for the race, for the love of the chase. The rabbit you well know, is a good runner. He is fast and hard to catch. When the hunter, the dog, caught the rabbit, he would kill the rabbit and then walk away and was ready for another race. The dog would not eat the rabbit. He did not catch him to eat. He won the chase, he won the race when he caught him, and he was satisfied. In my pursuit in business and the chasing of a dollar, I sometimes think of my dog when he caught the rabbit, he did not eat it. I chase the dollar, and when I catch it, I can not think that I do it just to go and buy something to eat or wear with it. No! no! I love the chase, I love to catch and win the race. Dont you? I go after it with all my energy and enthusiasm and love for the race. Dont you do the same ? 1 feel sure you do. I know you do. This, my men, has been over forty years ago. I can see and appreciate my dog to this day, and I will so long as I live. He has gone long ago to the Indians hunting ground, away be yond the river and beyond to the plain where neither the Indians nor you nor I can return, when we go. I hope my dog friend and the Indians friend is well cared for in that be- 313 yond, as well as he was here and may he have the same joy and pleasure in following his chosen profession, his chosen lifes work up there, as he did here. May you men get some lesson here and may this carry you back into your boyhood days, with your dogs, horses, and calves and goats that you loved and that loved you for your kind treatment and for the care you gave to your animal friends then. May you and I cling to our best days, our days when we were boys with our animals and playmates in the way of dogs, horses, calves and goats and chickens. Oh, how sweet to reflect and look back now and then on those days! Young man, may your life be good and may the rocky places be few and far apart and may good cheer and happiness follow you all along down lifes pathway. May we all love our job, our calling, our business, our profession, like this good, successful dog. Yes, he was a great success with his calling a hunter. I say good-night until we meet again. 314 H ABRIET Beeeher Stowe wrote the book, "Uncle Toms Cabin." It had more to do with bringing about the immediate war between the States, with free ing the negro, than any other book or any other influence. The bird in a wire cage, if you open the door and tell it to fly away to its home in the open and in the fields and woodlands or by the streams and over the valleys and hills, will gladly do so. Here is another book, THE HELPER, a book which, we claim, can and will free all men from poverty who want freedom, free you from ignorance of yourself, free you from a rented house, free you fFom rented 315 land, free you from the rented horse that works the land; yea, free you from walking down the road of poverty, and lead you to the road of prosperity. It will show you to the world of success. THE HELPER, DR. J. R. HOPKINS HELPEB, for his men and a helper for all men who want help and who will follow its advice, is a helper in deed and in truth, a helper for the young and for the old. Head THE HELPER and help yourself to be lifted up to a higher plane in knowledge and into success. My friend, are you in bondage ? Are you free in a sense ? Are you free, so as to go into a business, to enter into your chosen profession 1? Are you free to go into your own calling ? Are you free to go into your own home, a home you built or bought, free to raise your own dear ones in their own home; free so as to work your own land ? Or does poverty still say to you: "Stop! Wait! Xot yet!" O, poverty, how you sting! How you hinder this man! How you cling to this man! "Why will you? Who will deliver this man from bondage? Dont you want success? Dont you want a business? Dont you want a trade, a profession, a home ? Dont you want to know what you are best fitted for? Dont 316 you want to know who and what you are ? If so, read THE DR. J. R. HOPKINS HELPER over again, with a desire to get help. You have the opportunity, now is your time. Will you read THE HELPER daily? If not, why not? THE HELPER would not be offering itself to you to read, if it was not valuable and if it was not a HELPER. Write to the publishers for an agency. When you free yourself and start out for self, will you write THE HELPER and relate the fact ? Why not, if benefited? /2*-^^iy' {/ S) ^^ ^ > " 317 Some men owe practically all they know in books to their efforts at spare time, in the day after work hours, and at night. They are well up in their books, and in their education. Such men are few but very valuable, and make success in whatever thev undertake. Bear One Another's Burdens Bear one anothers burdens. My advice to you is first, to learn how to bear your own bur dens, and then help the other fellow bear his by telling him how to overcome them. Know how, before you give advice. The ways of a fool are hard. He finds it out, when too late, as a rule. He exclaims, "Oh, fool that I am." If he had said it five or ten years ago, it would have saved his saying it now, and realizing it. Did you ever ask yourself, where is-the di viding line between poverty and success? "Where does it start and where does it end! It is in you, the beginning and the ending, and you can find it if you look for it each day. Will ou look and find it 1 318 Man, I have tried to go away deep down into your better nature, into your common sense, where few people ever go, and, if I have gone down into your soul, into the quiet recesses, and dwelt a while with you, I am glad. If I have stirred and kindled anew the fire of love for self, love for family, love for success, then I am paid and you are paid. Mr. Man, you said that you would not figure on a business, because you said you had not the money to go into a business. You said you would not figure on owning a home, because you had no money to buy a home. You said you would not figure on a profession, because you had not a sufficient education nor money to go to school. You said you could not follow and procure your trade, that you were so anxious to pro cure and follow, and you saw no need to figure on it without having some money to aid you. Mr. Man, do you know anything at all you would be willing to figure up on ? Let me suggest one thing to figure on. When should a man figure up on himself, to see if he is a fool ? When you get the answer please give it another look and be sure it is 819 correct. Then hand the answer over to your wife. If you have no wife, hand it over to your sweetheart. Yours for figuring. "When you have no money, ought you to wait till you get it ? At your rate on your plan, you might be old before that day would ever come to you. Wont you figure ? Tours for figuring to-day. Writing to Mother Young man, your father and mother spent their better days raising you and giving you what education you have. They do not expect you to return the money. No, no! But they do expect you to do well, and be honest, and act true to them and yourself and make a good citizen and a success in life and treat them with a loving respect, that any true man is due his mother, and father. Dont go back on them. If you are away from home, write them and tell how you are and how you are getting along. What a small request to make of a boy or girl! Do it, be a man, be true to mother and father, or you will be worse than a savage. 320 THE managers place, in all lines, is a very responsible place. The collector and clerk and help expect a great deal of him, expect him to take great pains with them and expect him to either have now a good business, or the prospect of one at an early day. The help, if a good man, if true to himself, will want to do well and learn fast. Every man needs encouragement. Every man needs success in life. Most men and it is a strange thing to say and hard to believe are too care less and too lazy to want success. He thinks he wants it, but not so. He must want it enough to expect it, to work for it, to lose sleep thinking how to realize it and possess it. Mr. Wage-Earner, in any line, you will be what you prepare yourself to be. Yes, you will prepare yourself to be a success or a fail ure. Which will it be? You and you only will decide, which you will be. Keep rules, and know your work and read some now and then. Eecollect you need all the help you can get to make a man out of yourself and to make a big success in life. If you do not, it will be your fault and you will have no one but yourself to blame. Mr. Clerk, study the business and the cus321 tomer, know his work and what he gets and when he gets it. To the Collector and Help. If you have any respect for your manager, when you wish to quit, notify him a few days ahead of the day when you wish to resign, so that your place can be filled. Opportunity comes to every man once, and to some often. Look back and see if you did not let it pass by you more than once. Cultivate your character and see that it is watched after and cared for properly. It is a valuable asset, and you can grow it big and extra good. 322 T O my Managers in all lines: You must take pains in teaching the collectors and clerks and help the business in detail and the books and daily and monthly reports. The collector or clerk needs to learn how to conduct the business, and a good manager who is honest and true, who is not lazy and who wants to do well and see his men do well, can encourage and help his men and teach them fast. But mana gers who do not care, can soon ruin collectors and keep them in the background. Sometimes a manager gives me a collector for me to put in charge of a business, and I find "hi utterly unprepared, almost a blank, and no good. The manager had not trained him, and the collector or clerk thought he could do business, but made a complete failure, and I soon had to turn Tiim out. Would you like to have something, a home or a business ? Would you be willing to apply yourself diligently to the study of any work that would procure for you such earnings ? If so, you can have either or both, home and busi ness. Believe what I write you in THE HELPER and you will confess that my writings are true in 323 your case as they have been in that ol others. Write me short letters each week. It will help train you and do you good. You can not expect me to write you often. It is not neces sary, even if I had the time. But I will keep up with you and will know your growth in the business. Pure unadulterated ignorance is the reason why men change so often from one place to another. The man says that he changes for a little advance in salary. He is foolish to let a little money change him so often and knock him out so completely from the chance of mak ing a man and success. 324 HERE we have the striped animal, the Zebra. He is from South Africa. His flesh is appreciated by the natives and by the African lions. The Zebra is a very beautiful animal and very hard to train, and was at one time thought to be incapable of be ing trained for riding or for work. But that is a mistake, although but little has been done in that way. Now, my friend, these white and black stripes all over the body of the Zebra remind THE HELPER of the life some men and boys live. They are striped through and 325 through with white and black stripes. The white stripes are the good qualities that run through and through them, and they can be seen well by all men and can be appreciated by all men. Again, we see the black stripes running along side by side, parallel with the white stripes, in some cases, just as large and just as plain as the white stripes and you can evea see them farther and better. The black stripe is the bad qualities in the man, in the boy, his mean qualities, and you look at the man or boy and see the two stripes all through his acts and deeds, and then you commence to size the man or boy up and you wonder and ask your neighbor, "What is the matter with So and So our neighbor?" You see him do a white clean thing to-day and to morrow or next week, you see or hear of his doing a black deed, a wrong, a dirty thing. Then you and your neighbor or friend wonder why it is, that they see a beautiful, white, pure act or deed and lovely character to-day, and a black deed and dirty act and a black eharae- 326 ter to-morrow or next week in the man or the boy. Young man, will you look over your char acter, your life, and see if you have these two stripes running through you side by side ? If you have this black stripe, you commence now, while you are young and cut out the black stripe and let a white stripe grow where a black one now fills the place. It is not meant for man to be striped in character. Dont you prefer to be one color and not two colors ? Be white in act and in thought and in deed. May you live a pure and white and clean life daily. MR. CLERK : What kind of a foundation are you laving to build on? Do you know how to sell goods ? THE HELPER never saw a clerk that did not think he was a good salesman, and to tell the facts, there are but few good clerks; few good salesmen. Do you love the business? If you do not get there on time in the morning, you do not love your work. If you do not clean up well and take down goods and replace them properly, 328 you simply lie, if you say you love the busi ness. Ask the merchant if he thinks you love it, and if he will help you learn the business., Did you ever go to the merchant you are work ing for and ask him if he thinks you are get ting along all O. K.; if he thinks you are do ing well and your best, and ask him to point out your defects in your work, and when you make a big blunder, big mistake in handling a customer and failing to please him and failing even to sell him ? I say, listen to me! I say, do you go to the merchant, tell him it was your fault that you did not sell the customer? If you do this you love your work and you will learn how, and that merchant will keep you and will be glad to do so, because he sees a willingness; he sees success for you. A clerk that will do this wants to succeed, and he will succeed. Most clerks, when no one in the store is buying, bunch up and run to the windows and doors to look out, and some hang out on the sidewalks too much, by far, to ever make a successful clerk. Again, some clerks chew and smoke, and they take tobacco and cigars and fail to charge up the same to themselves. Can you make it 329 plain to the merchant why you can not think to charge it up ? Now to be plain, what is the difference in charging up a suit of clothes to yourself, and failing to charge up the tobacco ? You go and tell your merchant you forgot it, and that you dont know why you did, but you did. He knows all about it, but you go and tell him. Dont wait till he puts up a sign, * All must pay for the goods they get and charge them up as soon as bought." Some clerks can eat more cove oysters and crackers and cheese at night, than it will take to feed a small family, but you never see it on their accounts. Yes; there is one not satis fied with tobacco and oyster stew, but he sees that he needs collars, cuffs and ties. Oh! he needs them in bis trunk. But this is not the worst thing. Another young man comes in from the coun try and hires to this merchant, and the other older clerk has been there a long time. So the young honest man, from his fathers and mothers honest home sees all this going on, and he is tempted, although he says nothing at all to the merchant. He listens to what the little fool says. Why dont you tell the merchant that that 330 old clerk is stealing ? He answers, he is afraid that the merchant would not believe him, and then the other clerk would make up a lie on him and have him fired turned off and he wanted to keep his job. THE HELPER has heard this tale many times. So this goes on for a few months. Finally, this honest boy from his fathers and mothers side from his dear country home, and his beautiful fields of corn, pota toes and cotton has seen this other clerk get ting worse and dressing better. He falls into the ways of the older clerk, and has gone to slipping little by little, stealing from the man who was training him in business. He has forgotten father and mother, and he seldom writes to them, and they wonder why, and say, "It is strange that our son is doing this way. He used to write and tell how he was getting on, and how the merchant liked him, and how well he was doing." They say now, he never speaks about bis salarys going up, but some times he asks them for money, and they won der what he does with his money. "When he first went there, he wrote of the dear preacher; what interest he had taken in our son; he spoke of the sermons and the Sunday- 331 school, and his superintendent and teacher; but now we hear nothing of these, we do not get a letter once a month. What can be the matter?" I will tell you, father and mother. Tour "boy got in with the wrong clerk, and that clerks ways have ruined your boy. He was honest, but not so now; he loved you, but not much now; he can not even look homeward. The other clerk has led him hellward; he is following in. his ways, Ms footsteps; he is now fast becoming a wreck, he has commenced to drink and run around at night after bad women. Father and mother, look after your boys, and your girls. Teach honesty and teach it often, before it is too late. Mr. Clerk, when you read this, if you are honest, you know in your soul that I am not referring to you. No, no! I love an honest man, and I hate a tMef. They hurt all man kind and hurt them badly. They are a rotten, putrefied sore on the name of pure manhood. Again, Mr. Clerk, you know that these tMeves are holding you down, hurting you. All men in all lines are being hurt from thieves in some way. There are different kinds of 332 thieves. Your wages would be.better and higher, if there was no thief. They hurt you even a long way off. You would, no doubt, if merchants were not afraid, have been offered a working interest in a business. Mr. Merchant, you had better look after your clerks closer. You had better know them better. You had better watch closer and know with whom they associate at night. In some cases, they may sleep in the store. If in the country or small town, you keep your eyes open and know your clerks and what stock they spring from and the company they keep. The honest clerk is valuable, and you should encourage him in his work, and pay him as liberally as your business will afford. Watch as well as work. 333 Drop Me a Letter LET THE HELPER ask you, when you read my letters in THE HELPER to do me as well as yourself, a favor. If, after you have, read THE HELPER and you were aided by it in any way to start you out to get or pro cure you a home, a business, a profession or a trade, drop me a letter and tell me. I want to show the way and induce fifteen thousand men to reach a home, a business or a profession in twelve months. Mr. Reader, wont you be one ? If so, then write me. I will promise to read your letter, and will answer it if I can spare the time; but if I do not write you, I beg you in advance to excuse me, which I am sure you will do. 334 I Am Before You, Judge Me. MY READER, MY FRIEND AND MY MEN: Listen and listen now and know and feel and realize what I say. THE HELPER is a helper or a failure. Built on solid rock of human nature and human feel ings, human life and human experience, or, as I say, on most awfully misjudged condi tions of man and his needs and desires in this life and of his daily handling of him self and his niisfiguring on the past and on the present and on his- future in this life. I am trying with all my being and with all that is in me, if you please, in the deep recesses of my soul, as far down as I can go, as far as I can reach, to give you the help you need. How far I succeed, I let you be the judge, but be kind and judge me as I am; let it be as you say; judge me I say, but be gener ous, as all I am is before you. It is in THE HELPER that I have put my all, my life as I see it and your life as I see it and as you can see it, from my point of view. On THE HELPER I stand or I fall with you. If I go down in this, I go down in all. I go down a fool in my own estimation and in your estimation and when a man goes down in his 335 own estimation, then there is no hope, no res urrection here in this life. A failure will not cover or hide the meaning of a misspent life, a mis-judged life, for himself or for his kind or his men or for his neighbor, and his neighbor covers the world. I am with you and close to you. Where I am, you are the jury, you are the judge. Render your verdict, and may the ver dict be in my favor, in favor of THE HELPER. Tours for an honest verdict through and through, after a careful study of THE HELPER from one end to the other. 336